the only guy i talked to ghosted me. haha we even went on dates.
oof, well first if he ghosted you, you deserve better. it's shitty to ghost someone so don't tolerate it.
however, second, it's normal to feel heartbreak. go on a date with yourself, treat yourself, pamper yourself, do things for yourself. talk with friends, loved ones, watch funny shows, listen to cheerful songs, read happy vibes stories and do not drown in sad songs, negative vibes and pessimism. you don't need him to be happy! ghosting is an asshole's move and you are better off healthily alone! hmfph! (╬ ̄皿 ̄)
That's why you don't make your world centre around one guy. I'm not taking about dating multiple guys at the same time. But it's important to expand your horizons. Make good friends, talk to other people, have your own hobby. Do something you love to do. Eat good food. Guys who ghosted you are not worthy enough to get upset over
I also just broke up. We were both so bz with our life. Less comunication. Always late reply text. He even fogot to greet me on my bday this year. So i also did not greet him on his bday lol. Iam aries and my partner is taurus. So i did ask to broke up n i said i feel like single when tho iam in relationship with him. He just said hmm..then next day he ask as if nothing happend so i ignore him. It been 2 days. Guys tell me. He ddnt put effort and i feel like im waiting for something that would never happend. Im tired and feel sad right now
hii so i am in no way a love expert or anything but i would ask myself if i still love him the way i did in the beginning, is he still that much of an important person in my life.
you said you feel single while in a relationship, that is no good at all. when you talked about breaking up and he says hmm then goes on with life as if nothing happened, that is another big no good. even forgetting your birthday...? this is too much for me
i don't think love should make you feel miserable, love should give you strength when you need it, your partner should be a ray of light somehow in your daily life. of course there are ups and downs, but the moment you feel like this love/relationship you are in no longer brings value into your life, no longer makes you believe that if you are together you can get through anything, i think this is the time to part ways.
if you are both very busy with your lives and your relationship starts feeling like a habit, or you are in a relationship just "because you are in a relationship", then i don't think that it is good to continue like this. let it go, take your time, keep all the good memories, grow, seek happiness and things will get in order. just follow your heart and make sure you are not the only one putting your heart on the table when the other person is doing the bare minimum. prioritize yourself. i am proud of you. now rest a little and take care of yourself❀
that's...fucked up man