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yes, he took advantage of Jooin, but there is such a thing as "enjoyable rape" unfortunately. Does that make him less of a victim? Yes and no, because it depends on how traumatized the victim feels by it. Jooin was not traumatized by this, or at least the author isn't portraying it that way (yet, they might later who knows?) so that issue is moot. For yahwi, these emotions are new to him, so he's handling them like a child handles them. Its frustrating to those watching who have been through the hardships of a first relationship in their teens because we know what to expect of ourselves (how we'll feel or react to a given situation or rejection, etc ). Yahwi does not know this and he also has the added pressures of his family, expecting perfection and other such nonsense. All of this coupled with his obvious abandonment issues create a lovely little cocktail of being insensitive and cold. He doesn't understand his own emotions and he isnt hurting Jooin purposefully. A toxic person is defined solely on the fact that they know or understand they're hurting another with their actions to the point of causes lasting trauma. None of which Yahwi has done. All he's done is reject Jooin and now he's struggling with the regret of that and the jealousy of seeing Jim with another guy, which he probably doesn't know he's actually feeling, because he's never felt that way before towards someone. This is typical relationship for beginners drama. Also, Jooin isn't really fighting him because he's confused and he also wants to stay close to Yahwi, regardless of how much it breaks his heart. And thats also not toxic, it's just sad. It would be easy to say Yahwi is toxic so people could hate him easier, because Cain so far seems like a likable guy and better alternative (he's the toxic one, btw. Those stalker tendencies give me the chills and I'm waiting for his true personality to come out) but he's not. He's just a jerk. Some people are just assholes.
Who's Seungho? People keep mentioning him but I haven't found the manga/manhwa they're referring to. I know Sangwoo from Killing/Stalking and the psychologist in me does sympathize with him and finds him fascinating in a clinical sense, but the human side always goes, "you're a grown man and you make your own choices."
yawhi is soooo toxic omg bye
He's not, though. Not in a clinical sense or even a mild sense. He's just insensitive.
oh seungho is on a whole notha level i don't get how people like him
yes, he took advantage of Jooin, but there is such a thing as "enjoyable rape" unfortunately. Does that make him less of a victim? Yes and no, because it depends on how traumatized the victim feels by it. Jooin was not traumatized by this, or at least the author isn't portraying it that way (yet, they might later who knows?) so that issue is moot.
For yahwi, these emotions are new to him, so he's handling them like a child handles them. Its frustrating to those watching who have been through the hardships of a first relationship in their teens because we know what to expect of ourselves (how we'll feel or react to a given situation or rejection, etc ). Yahwi does not know this and he also has the added pressures of his family, expecting perfection and other such nonsense. All of this coupled with his obvious abandonment issues create a lovely little cocktail of being insensitive and cold. He doesn't understand his own emotions and he isnt hurting Jooin purposefully. A toxic person is defined solely on the fact that they know or understand they're hurting another with their actions to the point of causes lasting trauma. None of which Yahwi has done. All he's done is reject Jooin and now he's struggling with the regret of that and the jealousy of seeing Jim with another guy, which he probably doesn't know he's actually feeling, because he's never felt that way before towards someone. This is typical relationship for beginners drama. Also, Jooin isn't really fighting him because he's confused and he also wants to stay close to Yahwi, regardless of how much it breaks his heart. And thats also not toxic, it's just sad. It would be easy to say Yahwi is toxic so people could hate him easier, because Cain so far seems like a likable guy and better alternative (he's the toxic one, btw. Those stalker tendencies give me the chills and I'm waiting for his true personality to come out) but he's not. He's just a jerk. Some people are just assholes.
Who's Seungho? People keep mentioning him but I haven't found the manga/manhwa they're referring to. I know Sangwoo from Killing/Stalking and the psychologist in me does sympathize with him and finds him fascinating in a clinical sense, but the human side always goes, "you're a grown man and you make your own choices."
That sounds familiar. I wonder if I started ot only to drop it.... bow I've got to go look. Lol. Thanks