AssEnthusiast's Topics (78)

I mean think about SHE'S situation tho. He's been lied to from the very beginning. He doesn't know what's actually going on and he's incredibly pessimistic. In his mind, there's only the worst possible outcome or possibilities. He thinks himself worthless and he's clinging to the one person who makes him feel needed and important. But now, this guy who has been having an affair with him tells him he loves him and gets mad learning he's getting married when they're having an affair. Like how is that all fair to SH? The guy has been manipulated and lied to.

Stupid autocorrect. I meant SH's

Ofc no doubt about that, although at the same time MC THINKS he's done right by him now that he recognized his own feelings but never actually properly cleared up what happened. No doubt they're both feeling strung along/lied to/like their feelings are one-sided but SH didn't lead with "you've been seeing your bitches" but with an admission that he has waaaaay deeper self worth issues after he's been playing it nonchalant for the entire story

I get the frustration bc it's a victim type of mindset, which is in line with his pessimistic character. It's not unexpected to see him have an anxiety attack or episode after feeling overwhelmed with all the emotions he's going through.

He's not a confrontational person, otherwise he would've been up front about it from the beginning. In his mind, JH is already married and also has another one on the side, MJY, so he's just one the many partners of JH. So he thinks this arranged marriage is all fair within the boundaries of their ambiguous relationship. Esp when they haven't sat down and talked about the status of their relationship and be honest of where they stand with their emotions.

I get in the context it feels selfish, but if you were in his shoes where your partner has multiple partners and is married, and you decide to get married, and your partner gets angry, wouldn't that seem unfair to you?

You've been reading it through JH's POV and you feel more empathy towards him. But he's not faultless in any of this at all and causing a lot of anxiety with his partner for not telling him ANYTHING.

SH should have asked him more questions, should've questioned JH's intent more, but can you blame him entirely when he's been lied to from the beginning?

All in all, they're dumb af

Really? I personally think there's nothing similar about them. Whether it's their looks or personality

Never said anything about personality, I said the way WOONHA spoke to both of them just now

That's just how he speak to everyone he's close to. He likes to tease them. He even speak that way to Gyuwon's older brother if you notice

You do know his brother have his own story and manhwa right?

wait what was it?

Rabbit hole

Doesn't necessarily negate what I said

Well then maybe you find it weird because you're the one who's actually weird lol. What's so wrong with someone has playful personality

If you read the other story you already know both of them is very different from appearance to personality and vibes.

and you said the way woonha talk to his brother. But seriously, if you really already read the other story, that’s just how woonha’s personality. He talks like that to the people that close to him (example: his brother’s boyfriend)

Maybe it was just the angle and the way this specific artist drew him? Idk man

definitely not. in real life, girls and boys are usually dressed in a pretty stereotypical way when they’re younger, so it’s usually pretty distinguishable. i also refuse to believe that the mom or the brother never mentioned anything during the time they were together.

it CAN happen bc it happens w one of my family members ALL the time even when dressed in “gendered” clothing but it’s generally not very common no

Yeah but like, over a large period of time? Sure you can mistake someone's gender once, twice, maybe in passing. But having a childhood friend that you thought was a different gender for YEARS???

it CAN, especially as children, but it’s not common at all. mc is just kinda stupid bc if u look back u can usually see that u were wrong

It regularly happened to me from the age of 9 to 14, I even got yelled at once for being ''a boy in a dress and it's not even Halloween!! damn hooligan'' ┑(￣Д ￣)┍

it can happen when I was young I had a crush on this boy, after several WEEKS did I find out that was a girl and I'm just a lesbian. worst part is she wasn't even dressed "like a boy" she just had short hair so yes it can happen but it's almost impossible to go on for years as gender is a big role in society, but it's fiction and we can definitely exaggerate

When I was 6, my passport had me marked as a boy, even though I'm a girl. So, yeah, it's not that strange. The unrealistic part would be the idea of boys being interested in girls at that age. Children in general don't think about that stuff.