Sex work is always viewed in such a negative connotation, with prejudice and hatred. Many view porn actors as sleazy! But it's work like any other. Of course, it takes a special kind of person to be okay with sharing your partner but relationships come in all forms! There isn't anything wrong with porn actors, but the sex industry. This story was so sweet, and a good representation ;>
Their love is really sweet but I personally could never tolerate my lover having sex with someone else even if it's considered only as "work". It would pain me every single time
THEIR LOVE IS SO PURE AND CUTEEEEE i didn’t like how kira touched him without permission but at least he apologized and made up for it and didn’t do anything without knowing kazuaki wanted it too
He didn't say it on romantic context he said it to make the uke understand how much desperate he is. I liked that he didn't rape him and stopped after uke said no
Love this sex worker positive story! It shows that love doesn't equal sex and sex doesn't equal love.
Kira is open honest and willing to have discussions with his partner who he loves completely. To him sex at work is just a job but sex with his lover is real.
His partner trusts Kira, knows he is loved and is comfortable enough to be honest.
I love that he accepts Kiras job. There’s no romantic emotion for Kira and there are sex workers who have healthy monogamous relationships with partners who are comfortable with their partners work. I’m so glad it’s represented healthily.
I completely agree.. and when I first read this story (few years back) there were a lot of comments saying that they didn’t understand why Kira couldn’t just quit his job but the thing is that he does love his job.. he values it and the fact that Kazuki understood and let him continue is what makes it so nice.. they are both understanding of each other’s problems and insecurities.. unless the other person is actually a bad person, I think the willingness to accept your partner for who they are speaks volume.
Just recently I watched a video about a Japanese couple where a lady married a pornstar. At first I thought, “that must be hard.” But then as a listened to what she said about it, it really showed just how understanding and wise she was. She said that at first, it took 2 years for her to fully be understanding and she cried of course during that time. But then she realized a couple of things about porn actors: There must be days where they just don’t want to have sex or aren’t in the mood for it. It can be tiring doing it all the time. They have to do it even if they are under the weather and don’t feel good. And there will be times where they have to have sex with someone they really don’t want to do it with because they need to do it for their job. - It really opened up my mind. I always thought that porn actors must love their jobs and just being able to feel good all the time and sleep around with lots of people and get paid for it. But I realized that at the end of the day, it’s a job. Just like other people, they can get tired or just have stuff they don’t want to do, but can’t refuse. - Anyways the lady also said that she’s fine with it if he does it only during work, and of course she’s not tolerant of cheating so no doing it outside of work. She phrased it to something similar like: “Imagine your wife goes to the doctor and undresses so that the doctor can take a look at her boobs. It’s fine at the doctors place, however it’s not fine if she goes around outside showing her boobs to random people.”
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"Me personally I couldn't handle blah blah blah" well good thing this story isn't about you and that Kazuaki is a better person than you huh
Sex work is always viewed in such a negative connotation, with prejudice and hatred. Many view porn actors as sleazy! But it's work like any other. Of course, it takes a special kind of person to be okay with sharing your partner but relationships come in all forms! There isn't anything wrong with porn actors, but the sex industry. This story was so sweet, and a good representation ;>
Their love is really sweet but I personally could never tolerate my lover having sex with someone else even if it's considered only as "work". It would pain me every single time
THEIR LOVE IS SO PURE AND CUTEEEEE i didn’t like how kira touched him without permission but at least he apologized and made up for it and didn’t do anything without knowing kazuaki wanted it too
I love that he didn't try to change but accepted him, for he is
i hope for all of us to found a job that will excite us every morning!!!!
I actually loved this story they were so cute and it was somewhat wholesome I was so jelly of their love the way he looks at him is so beautiful:)
I can’t believe the seme said I want to rape you like that was romantic or something lmaoo
Frsss like wtf...but I feel he regretted it so much, that’s why going to Australia was good to him, to clear his mind i guess
He didn't say it on romantic context he said it to make the uke understand how much desperate he is. I liked that he didn't rape him and stopped after uke said no
Love this sex worker positive story! It shows that love doesn't equal sex and sex doesn't equal love.
Kira is open honest and willing to have discussions with his partner who he loves completely. To him sex at work is just a job but sex with his lover is real.
His partner trusts Kira, knows he is loved and is comfortable enough to be honest.
I love that he accepts Kiras job. There’s no romantic emotion for Kira and there are sex workers who have healthy monogamous relationships with partners who are comfortable with their partners work. I’m so glad it’s represented healthily.
People put way too much faith in sex.
I completely agree.. and when I first read this story (few years back) there were a lot of comments saying that they didn’t understand why Kira couldn’t just quit his job but the thing is that he does love his job.. he values it and the fact that Kazuki understood and let him continue is what makes it so nice.. they are both understanding of each other’s problems and insecurities.. unless the other person is actually a bad person, I think the willingness to accept your partner for who they are speaks volume.
Just recently I watched a video about a Japanese couple where a lady married a pornstar. At first I thought, “that must be hard.” But then as a listened to what she said about it, it really showed just how understanding and wise she was. She said that at first, it took 2 years for her to fully be understanding and she cried of course during that time. But then she realized a couple of things about porn actors:
There must be days where they just don’t want to have sex or aren’t in the mood for it. It can be tiring doing it all the time.
They have to do it even if they are under the weather and don’t feel good.
And there will be times where they have to have sex with someone they really don’t want to do it with because they need to do it for their job.
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It really opened up my mind. I always thought that porn actors must love their jobs and just being able to feel good all the time and sleep around with lots of people and get paid for it. But I realized that at the end of the day, it’s a job. Just like other people, they can get tired or just have stuff they don’t want to do, but can’t refuse.
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Anyways the lady also said that she’s fine with it if he does it only during work, and of course she’s not tolerant of cheating so no doing it outside of work. She phrased it to something similar like:
“Imagine your wife goes to the doctor and undresses so that the doctor can take a look at her boobs. It’s fine at the doctors place, however it’s not fine if she goes around outside showing her boobs to random people.”
ooo that sounds like an intriguing video, do you know what the title is?
“Why this Japanese woman got married to porn actor”
Haha dunno what it says but the llama at end was so cute.
Was great and wholesome. Uke is so pretty
Sorry I meant to upvote. It won't let me change it
Hehe no problem