Idk if any1 will see this and to preface i am no way a professional or like super duper knowledgable in the deaf community and i myself am not Deaf or Hard of Hearing. I am a hearing person. I just want to share my experience. And also i am speaking from more of an american stand point cuz i know depending on culture and society it can be diff.
I see alot of ppl referring to Deaf people as disabled. From what i learned from my Deaf professor while learning ASL, the Deaf community doesn’t like being referred to as disabled because they don’t see themselves disabled. By that they mean that they are able to do everything an abled bodied person can in terms of basic needs and regular day to day. Now i know they cant hear music but they can feel vibrations and get the feel of it through interpretation. My Deaf professor was telling me that they see themselves as people who “speak” a different language and that being called disabled means that they need to be fixed but in fact the deaf community don’t feel like they do need to be “fixed” in any way. They just have their own culture and language. They have their own unique way to express emotions and there are very interesting and cool videos you can watch of Deaf poets. The way they sign poetry but also still have that feeling and emotion through sign is cool! Also the reason as to why i capitalize D in Deaf is because they are their own community and culture as well so its like when you capitalize America or Japan when you write about them (( in formal setting cuz typing casually i just be lazy to capitalize and punctuate smtimes lol)). Now i know that everyone has diff situations and in this manga the character loses his hearing suddenly and recently and i cant say much about him due to not being super duper familiar to Japans culture and societys views on the Deaf community. I just wanted to let ppl know abt what i learned from a person from the Deaf community. Also if you’re interested in learning more its really easy to search about it on ur own. (⌒▽⌒)
Super fluffy and makes my heart feel warm. The uke is so adorable and hot at the same time like a gentle bear. Actually the seme and uke are both super hot and manly so thats a big plus. The only flaw is that its a one shot! But even though its a one shot the story flowed perfectly and I was satisfied. Recommend!
he only barely became deaf meaning he knows how to speak right? i’m not saying he SHOULD speak ofc however i do want a little snippet of him saying a word on accident and then the seme gets MAJORLY turned on HFKSJFKSH like that one webtoon called Sign
It becomes really hard to speak when you lose your hearing especially if you lived your entire life with it. You become very insecure because you cant hear what your voice sounds like anymore so you stop talking all together. Here he didnt lose it for a long time so he's still in the period where he's not confident enough to speak outloud fearing that he'd sound weird or strange. I mean idk for sure if that is why he didn't speak here but that's usually the case for a lot of people
It becomes really hard to speak when you lose your hearing especially if you lived your entire life with it. You become very insecure because you cant hear what your voice sounds like anymore so you stop talkin... Chocopops
Im just confused as to why Tooru needs a cane... Doesn't it look "pretentious" for a seeing person to have a cane?
Anyway, Kazuha really went for it to tell Tooru about seeing himself as a victim and looking down on disabled people. Also, it’s a nice gesture to learn Sign language together and well, form a romantic relationship <3
By having a cane, people can immediately tell that the person is disable, regardless what kind of disability they have. Imagine if the person is deaf but don't have a cane, when people calling out to him, people can have misunderstanding like maybe he's being arrogant, don't want to bother.
So by having cane actually helps a lot. Not necessarily must be blind. That's what happened in my country, the moment we saw a person with a cane, we'll be extra careful, doesn't matter what kind of disability.
By having a cane, people can immediately tell that the person is disable, regardless what kind of disability they have. Imagine if the person is deaf but don't have a cane, when people calling out to him, peopl... mangalover23
Oh! That gives a real life perspective into this. Thanks~
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Idk if any1 will see this and to preface i am no way a professional or like super duper knowledgable in the deaf community and i myself am not Deaf or Hard of Hearing. I am a hearing person. I just want to share my experience. And also i am speaking from more of an american stand point cuz i know depending on culture and society it can be diff.
I see alot of ppl referring to Deaf people as disabled. From what i learned from my Deaf professor while learning ASL, the Deaf community doesn’t like being referred to as disabled because they don’t see themselves disabled. By that they mean that they are able to do everything an abled bodied person can in terms of basic needs and regular day to day. Now i know they cant hear music but they can feel vibrations and get the feel of it through interpretation. My Deaf professor was telling me that they see themselves as people who “speak” a different language and that being called disabled means that they need to be fixed but in fact the deaf community don’t feel like they do need to be “fixed” in any way. They just have their own culture and language. They have their own unique way to express emotions and there are very interesting and cool videos you can watch of Deaf poets. The way they sign poetry but also still have that feeling and emotion through sign is cool! Also the reason as to why i capitalize D in Deaf is because they are their own community and culture as well so its like when you capitalize America or Japan when you write about them (( in formal setting cuz typing casually i just be lazy to capitalize and punctuate smtimes lol)). Now i know that everyone has diff situations and in this manga the character loses his hearing suddenly and recently and i cant say much about him due to not being super duper familiar to Japans culture and societys views on the Deaf community. I just wanted to let ppl know abt what i learned from a person from the Deaf community. Also if you’re interested in learning more its really easy to search about it on ur own. (⌒▽⌒)
Ah so cuuuute and fluffy~
you just know it's theirs by the cover alone, the art style is just unique and the stories are just to my taste
Super fluffy and makes my heart feel warm. The uke is so adorable and hot at the same time like a gentle bear. Actually the seme and uke are both super hot and manly so thats a big plus. The only flaw is that its a one shot! But even though its a one shot the story flowed perfectly and I was satisfied. Recommend!
Same
This story makes me happy, and I’m happy that I still understand some sign language. Even tho I grew distant of it after my sister died.
So your just trying to make me cry ╥﹏╥
he only barely became deaf meaning he knows how to speak right? i’m not saying he SHOULD speak ofc however i do want a little snippet of him saying a word on accident and then the seme gets MAJORLY turned on HFKSJFKSH like that one webtoon called Sign
Actually I'm curious whether he moan or not(￣∇￣")
Yes. He knew how to speak.. he can speak. I think they didnt think when they are writing the story(￣∇￣")
It becomes really hard to speak when you lose your hearing especially if you lived your entire life with it. You become very insecure because you cant hear what your voice sounds like anymore so you stop talking all together. Here he didnt lose it for a long time so he's still in the period where he's not confident enough to speak outloud fearing that he'd sound weird or strange. I mean idk for sure if that is why he didn't speak here but that's usually the case for a lot of people
ahh okays! Thank you so much!!
This as a one shot should be a crime
i wish this was longer
Im just confused as to why Tooru needs a cane... Doesn't it look "pretentious" for a seeing person to have a cane?
Anyway, Kazuha really went for it to tell Tooru about seeing himself as a victim and looking down on disabled people. Also, it’s a nice gesture to learn Sign language together and well, form a romantic relationship <3
Kazuha said that It’ll be easier to tell if he was handicapped or not.
Yeah. But he isn't blind... Which makes the cane look like he's faking a disability. But if that works in Japan ~ alrighty then HAHAHA
My exact thought
I mean he does have a disability but why a Cain?
CANE
By having a cane, people can immediately tell that the person is disable, regardless what kind of disability they have. Imagine if the person is deaf but don't have a cane, when people calling out to him, people can have misunderstanding like maybe he's being arrogant, don't want to bother.
So by having cane actually helps a lot. Not necessarily must be blind. That's what happened in my country, the moment we saw a person with a cane, we'll be extra careful, doesn't matter what kind of disability.
Oh! That gives a real life perspective into this. Thanks~
Well my thought was is he can't hear so if something happened from the behind he has a cane or something ╮(￣▽￣)╭
aww so cute and I wish this wasn't a one shot I wanted more chapter. (▰˘◡˘▰)