Had a bad impression on this girl when she was pushing her "normal" to others when she herself knows how hard it is like how going to cafes is feminine. It just kept getting worse from there: she's utterly picky and said she didn't want to be judged by her looks, but she almost immediately rejected a guy because of his looks, because he looks plain and doesn't dress well. When she learns he's good-looking, she says she doesn't want to date good-looking guys. For all her thoughts of not wanting to be judged solely by her looks, she's pretty much doing the same. I get that it's better to be choosey with a lifetime partner than shallowly making do with whatever, state and think what one wants and all that, but I couldn't appreciate her hypocritical words.
Maybe instead of pointing out what she doesn't want, she should focus on what she's looking for in a guy. Then, she could weigh the pros and cons and give dating a try with a few select people if she truly wants to be in a relationship. Otherwise, never mind fitting in "normal", just marry your job, get a pet or something.
Dekiai Ouji kara Nogareru Houhou Watashi Zettai Kekkon shimasen