No but my older sister has had 3 stalkers (not at the same time) during her time in college which I barely took seriously since every time she came home she would describe these dudes as the ugliest people she has ever seen and it was hilarious reply
Yes. Turns out they were stalking my friend. Still not good, but I’m glad that it wasn’t me. Don’t worry I beat him up bc he was interrupting my time with her. reply
I dont know if you have past trauma, but the same thing started happening to me 2 years ago. Whenever people in general would get close to me I would feel immense fear for some reason it didn't matter what gender however I was most sensitive to guys. I could talk and be close to girls but if they tried to hug me or touch me I would get scared, for ...... 1 reply
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I don't even have to guess i can bet $1,000,000 you have been molested/raped. You may have memory loss of a part of your childhood/ memory gaps. It's just surfacing now in this presentation as "fear of males"
You are innocent (the pervert is the one to blame). Get therapy! What you are experiencing NO ONE ...... 2 reply
Same, I've been having that same feeling for months now as well. But, that was after my past experiences with them. I started becoming uncomfortable being around older men or boys. I won't go into much detail about what happen to me but I will do a summary of it!
-Was touched by my older brother's friend (I was about maybe 6,7,or 8 years old? )
- H...... 2 reply
Hey there!
It's definately not something usual if you've had bad experiences with men before. The reactions you describe sound like common anxiety or panic symptoms. Someone mentioned androphobia, which could be it. Or it could be any other anxiety disorder, it depends on why and how this problem developed. The best thing to do now would be talk t...... 1 reply
Have u had a bad experience around men or is this something that just manifested on its own? Think of the source of ur fear and then that should help u decide if it is reasonable or not. Also talk with a trust female adult. Perhaps they can give better guidance. In the end if ur fear is starting to get in the way of it daily functions and u can't g...... 1 reply
