i just realized i have tokophobia....
i didnt think it was a real phobia..
but to add to that im also gay...not saying gay people can't get pregnant...
just saying if ur gay i get why u would want to get a child that looks like or ur partner (either through surrogacy or ivf)
but there are so many orphans..if u really want a child...just adopt a bab...... reply
No, i can see myself adopting though, if i ever decide i want kids.
Which would never happen now that ive experienced those little demons first hand by my siblings. reply
Fiction affects reality through affecting your brain, no matter how much you separate it from reality. Reading one sometimes is ok but constantly bombarding yourself with certain images and fantasies might make you more likely to act on them. Most rapists had rape fantasies and watched rape porn way before acting on them, so it's not "just fiction"...... reply