i just realized i have tokophobia....
i didnt think it was a real phobia..
but to add to that im also gay...not saying gay people can't get pregnant...
just saying if ur gay i get why u would want to get a child that looks like or ur partner (either through surrogacy or ivf)
but there are so many orphans..if u really want a child...just adopt a bab...... reply
I sure as shit hope not. Last time I had a pregnancy scare, I cannot even tell you how fast I was on my phone searching up where's the nearest place that performs abortions & how much they cost, like... not even a second's hesitation. Get that thang OUTTA THERE. (Turned out I wasn't pregnant in the end lol so I stressed myself out BADLY and spent a...... 2 reply
Yes, it mught be unpopular opinion here but i always wished to be a mother, while i doubt i will be a good mother but no one perfect and as long as i love my future kids i know i will do my best.
My problem is that i never date a man and you need husband to have kids and healthy body, unfortunately I'm very sickly and rarely meet people so even if...... reply
No. Never. I don't like kids. I find them very annoying. No matter how well behaved they are. I cant raise kids with this personality. I dont like them that doesnt mean I'll have a few and traumatise them for life. Not having kids is a way for me to protect my peace and protect them from a terrible mother. reply
No.
I suffered SA by my biological "father" when i was 3. My mom was a teen mom who married 3 times in her life. To add to trauma im also Audhd and struggle with health issues. I am in no form willing to have a child. I couldn't support the child emotionally/ financially, would survive pregnancy and post partum etc. There is so much to raising a c...... reply
I dont really like seeing irl pregnant bellies. They kinda gross me out. I dont hate kids but I feel like I'll get bored of them so yeah its a no from me 1 reply
I don't know... Like yeah, I have tokophobia, but it's not just the physical pain I'm scared of; It's what I have to lose.
The moment you have a child, your whole life is changed; it's irreversible.
I respect all amazing and brave mothers who love and cherish their kids, but motherhood comes with a cost: losing your best self, and I don't think I'...... reply
