Yall Ever Just Feel Sad

so i was taking a shower and my brother knocks on the door to hurry up. i tell him 5 more minutes but i lost track of time and 5 minutes pass and im still not done so he knocks on the door again. i say 5 minutes and then get out. he then tells me im the most selfish person he's ever met and i was taking up his time when he wants to go to sleep (its like 11). i laughed at him because last night he made me stay up till 2 am to watch anime with him. i guess he thought i was mocking him while laughing so he got even more mad. after i got into bed he comes into my room and tells me im a bad person and that im disturbing and that im so selfish. am i these things?? i mean i did take a 50 minute shower but its very rare i do that. im just sad

I need to get this off my chest bc its been bothering me a lot today. Today I was just trying to go hang out with my family bc they say I never do. I don't really like giving hugs to ppl or affection in general. Bc I said I don't like hugs its awkward to my mom she replied with, "I wish I had another daughter who gave me cuddles." I'm sorry, but when she said that ofc thats gonna hurt me. So I told her that what she had said kinda hurt me. Then I get a reply if why would I be offended when its just a joke? How is it not gonna hurt someone when you tell them they basically want someone better than you who can fill all their needs and you're not really that wanted? I know I'm probably just in the wrong for taking that comment to that level tho. I'm sorry for this being longer(〜￣△￣)〜