Mom told me when I was a 12 or something that whatever bad has happened is because of me. Also she bitched about me to my brother about how I am using her just like my father did. (Crazy to compare your child for a small mistake they did regarding their career, to a full fledged adult with enough sense to not to take debts after debts and not cause...... reply
context: my mom doesnt like my dad but they still live together. they had a fight and i was trying to calm things down. Im also (was and still am) on mental health medication for depression.
my mom was shouting at this point.
mom: "why dont you go take your pills and calm down."
me: "thats not what they are for. thats for them i feel like i wann...... 1 reply
Work from home/freelance is not real job
Im socially awkward, and i dont like meet people. I understand she worried about me, since covid i never go outside except for groceries etc. But she said that my job is what slave-minded do... ugh it hurts so much. reply
My mom told me that I would "starve" if I ended up doing art related stuff as a career. That I should just do it as a hobby. That I wont reach or gain anything if I ended up as an artist. She knows very well that I love to draw. I've always heard this kind of stuff from other people, but hearing this from her.. I just dont know what to feel.
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when i was a wee kid i said to my mom that i want to go in this one middle school. it's a christian school and there's a lot of dark skinned students attending there. when i told them that i wanna continue there, my mom said
"no, don't you know there's a lot of dark skinned people there?! they're a bad influence for you. your skin will also gonna ...... reply
I have a small list, because my parents/family is incredibly old-fashioned:
- My father hates everything technological. I work in IT and all the time he tells me that what I do isn't REAL work...but as soon as he has technical problems he comes running...
- My brother's girlfriend and my mother said ‘‘bad things“ against foreigners... whil...... reply
She didn't say but did, she kicked me our of the house in the middle of the night because I didn't wash the dishes, I was 12 at that time and my father was traveling aboard, I stayed at my friend's house that night and the two days after reply
When I was in 8th grade my dad told me "What's the point in being born if you can't even do this? You should just die" or soemthing like this After I refused to make tea for him cause I was busy with some work. I've forgotten like 70% of the shit mt parents have said to me cus it's of no point and i dont really care now
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my mother recently told me that i was selfish, just like my dad. she also said i was a heartless bitch just like president snow (this was right after we watched the ballad of songbirds and snakes) it wasn't hurtful, but mildly surprising to hear out of nowhere. reply
