i don't want kids unless they're adopted because we don't need more kids in the world when there's kids needing a family already
i think is kinda selfish to have a kid the way things are
and i don't have the mental health and finances for this, i like to be alone too
and i would be constantly afraid my kid would turn into what I'm afraid/don't lik...... 2 reply
nope, the entire idea of it is scary. i always have a big fear i’ll raise my child wrong because i lived in a very unstable and dangerous environment, i don’t want my kid to grow up like i did. even if i was planning to have a child, i’d most likely adopt. reply
It's understandable if you're like twelve or sumn 'cause kids around that age don't really know any better. But if you're a grown ass adult doing this shit idek what to say.
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i used to do it "a lot" in junior high and high school. but honestly.. it was only one ship in junior high and another two in high school. there were also some of my friends who also shipped them so like... it just stuck with us. it's weird. we just randomly think someone's friendship is cute and said "omg i ship" and we just went along. the people...... reply
I used to ship RL people when I was in KPOP fandom. Now if I look back it just feels weird shipping people like that. You don't even know they're close or not. Maybe they show affection to each other just like how friend is and we took them as romantic gesture. If giving affection to other is seen as something romantic it's just too narrow. I also ...... reply
I used to ship people like youtubers (yeah I’m weird) but stopped after reading some tweets that it makes people (people that I shipped together) uncomfortable so I only use shipping as a joke with friends now reply
