Tbh kids for me are either Nope or Fuck Yes bc like...I don't want to half-ass raising a kid, so if I'm not like 100% all in it's not gonna happen. reply
Tbh most people I meet dont want to or are just like I’m going to adopt. I on the contrary would love to have two kids heck maybe even three. Yes kids aren’t an easy task ik that for sure I have a baby sister and watched her grow up and I am constantly babysitting her and while at school my mom says she practically can’t get anything done bc ...... 1 reply
Im 30 and i dont have one. And i dont really know if i like yo have children. But its uplifting reading your insights and stories. I guess you’ll just have to work out what life gives you or doesn’t give you. reply
I hate to deal with children. They're nice to look at and cute but I can't raise one. More like, I don't want to take responsibility.
Moreover, what kind of future could I offer to my child? A world where people are literally destroying themselves?? What if my child would be a special kid?? Would I be able to take care of it properly??? reply
Children are a pain in the ass yet the sense of fulfillment and joy you feel when raising one is indescribable as what most folks with kids say. Sex and pregnancy is not my thing so giving birth to a child of my own is impossible. I don't want to experience 9 months of emotional and physical stress added to the much awaited labor. Parenting require...... reply
I'm 20 & I already have a one yr old. Some ppl don't have & or want one. At one point I didn't want one either because I didn't want my child & or children go through the same thing I did, but then I realized I'm different from my parents & want to grow from there mistakes. I want my child to be happy & to actually have her parents in her life. I t...... reply
Not only do you have the urge to breed, you also have to take care of the little buggers!!! THE HORROR! ...I'm 30 and I have a rambunctious 6 year old. In the beginning, I definitely did not plan for a kid. I thought it would be easy and it wasn't and I was not prepared for parenthood but you live and you learn and now I can't imagine my life witho...... reply
I would love to have kids! I want them when Im older, as they warm my soul- is what younger me would say.
Honestly it's a 50/50 right now. Mostly a no because I would abousuloty LOVE to just stay home and read manga and shit like that, not take care of a baby. Plus all that money....Whew...But right now im young so you'll never know! reply
I find the process of giving birth terrifying what if my body never becomes the same after it? Nope.
Also I'm really scared of being a bad parent, I know parents make mistakes too but it's just that it seems so much hard work and I just don't think I have the right uh characteristics to be a mom.
I like children but if I had to handle of them 24/...... 1 reply
