lemme stalk my crush rq...oops, he noticed me and my eyebags...
"come live in my basement"
"oh ok"
"kill these people"
"ok"
"kill a police officer"
"no."
"oh the house is on fire whoo, there's a freshly grilled Sangwoo now...
oh he died oh welp, lemme scatter his ashes on the floor" 1 reply
They are both adults, I don't see the problem. If they met when the younger one was 20 I don't see the problem, but if they met when the younger one was a minor then wheww that's concerning because what were you doing with a minor sir reply
I have friends in real life that like older guys, so I suppose it is common people fantasizing about that kind of relationship. the problem i see is when the younger one is naive and don't have experience in relationships and the older person wants to take advantage of that fact, or the younger one is a gold digger and the older one is a lonely per...... reply
Age gap romances predate yaoi …
Not every trope you see in manga started there. My mom has old romantic novels still on her bookshelves (old faves) and many have age gaps.
You really need to diversify your reading. Plenty of novels with silver foxes, daddy bears etc and plenty of people who are fine with age gap. Both hetero and lgbq+ stories ...... reply
Oh it’s problematic alright, but bc it’s fictional, it also doesn’t matter. Creating and consuming fictional content is just “oh what ifs” scenario. When approaching “problematic” content like age gap, rape and violence etc. ppl enjoy them simply bc it’s not real. We don’t sky dive bc we want to meet our end, but bc we have a para...... reply
Age gaps being normalized in yaoi shouldn't come as a surprise considering rape and sexual assault is also normalized. But yeah, those minor x adult yaois with awfully large age gaps concern me as well. reply