Yaoi Being Life Ruining

not the ppl in the comments defending themselves lmaooo,, let's face it, it IS porn. dont sugarcoat it by saying "it's just a drawing!" or "as long as it doesn't ruin your life", and it's also ironic how BL isnt even made for gay relationships. Where wlw and mlm couples aren't widely accepted to society, but these genres of BL and GL r seen as feti......   1 reply

You can have an unhealthy amount of anything. I play an unhealthy amount of video games. I used to read yaoi as a form of conversion therapy to make me not disgusted by male you know what but it only worked if I did it every single day so I was reading an unhealthy amount of yaoi. I think you as an individual can generally pinpoint when you’ve go......   reply

I mean it depends if you're actively bating to it. If you aren't I would consider it more an obsession than an addiction if you read it as much as you say you do. If you're using it to get off then it's definitely an addiction, but if you can have it taken away from you without suffering any mental strain more then just bummed out it's more an obse......   reply

My first yaoi was killing stalking, I never recovered   1 reply

Sorry to be blunt but yeah, it's porn, thus porn addiction.   1 reply

if you feel like you spend too much time on it then try to take a step back from it maybe? Idk if it's a matter of addiction but I think you should do what feels right for you specifically. I tend to read more yaoi when I feel overworked or overwhelmed with life, so I get what you mean. It's def a sort of escapism brain-rot vibe that helps turn y......   reply

I personally think it’s fine. I mean, who’s to judge what makes you happy(as long as it’s not illegal). I think about yaoi all the time cause I enjoy reading it. Sure it’s porn, but that doesn’t make it bad, I personally don’t just read it for its smut, I have my standards too, and I like reading story’s for its plot. I think you’re......   reply