It's because the vast majority of them ARE fetishizers. Reading BL doesn't automatically mean you're a fetishizer, yes, but that also doesn't mean you should feel the need to try to excuse fetishizers' actions. And, if what some people like to do is fetishize mlm, then sorry but I'm going to judge them for it. 1 reply
Honestly I think it’s that persons business whether they wanna fetishize whatever is they wanna fetishize or not. In that same regard it’s also not my business to know that you think that, because I’m personally not interested. I wish people would keep more intimate things to themselves, emphasis on “intimate.” Now, for those who just sex...... reply
mmmmmmmtotallyagreeingggggggggggg yk i, being a female myself, think that fetishizing over these things is getting a lil TOO much outta hand. i mean, ok u like them when they r together it's ok! totally ok! BUT! don't sexualise them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and ofc no hate, sorry to offend anyone................................ reply
hi, eng isnt my first language or anything so expect mistakes etc.
its just that almost all of the fujoshis, etc. often fetishize mlm and even wlw. and a majority of them r super toxic and they would force even just same sex friends and tell ppl ''omg i heard theyre canon, if theyre not im dropping this lol.'' and yea- correct me if im wrong tho :)...... 2 reply
i do agree that some gay/bi/pan men do generalize girls like that but i feel like they have a reason to.. some chicks on this site seriously need help and negative impressions leave a greater impact than positive ones.
anyway, in general i stay away from bl stories w/sex unless im interested in the plot cuz: sex isnt it, i dont want to be called a ...... 2 reply
