Nope nope nope
Tbh Its hella awkward if I told them about something like this cuz my family is pretty conservative... Like they're open about the LGBTQ fam but still :‹ they'll react bad with me telling them
I can imagine them stopping me from reading things like these :((
I told my 2 close friends about me reading yaoi and they ugh they're react...... reply
Im also lesbian and my dads kind of homophobic but not to the point he will disown me. My tip would be dont telll him unless you are ready to face it, it may be hard but also save some money for that you will be sure that if something happens you have a option. But for me just be true to him even though it may hurt but deep inside he still loves yo...... reply
Honestly, the safest thing to do is wait until your at a point you can support yourself in case he does disown you. It sucks, but it's better to come out when you're independent and can risk being disowned.
Along the way or close to when you can risk independence, without revealing yourself, you could try to slowly open his mind a bit. Gage his op...... reply
I read the entire thing and before addressing your question, I would like to give you my two cents about the whole thing.
First of all, I'm glad you could find the courage to post your story in here (sharing one's story is always a very personal and emotional thing, and deserves the respect that comes with it). Secondly, as a fellow lesbian who fi...... 1 reply
I told my mom a few days after I bought a physical yaoi manga right in front of her, but that was actually a coincidence because the cover didn't look like it at all. She ended up asking me if that's it and explaining that she had a feeling. It was still surprising for her but she didn't mind despite being very religious. She just thought it was we...... reply
I'd have your mum do it for you. It may seem a bit offensive, but you're less likely to directly face a huge outburst and he might be more willing to listen to his wife since they'd be on the same level socially. If it was you he could try to convince you to turn straight or something. Look in to not getting a girlfriend until you're 18 and not tel...... reply
No. No one knows I like Yaoi except one of my girl friend. It was unexpected for me since she's quite religious. So, I was accidentally saw her scrolling yaoi on her laptop (can u imagine it? ), and she didn't realize i was there. I was knocking but she might not hear it so i just enter as she didn't close her door. It took me surprise as she was r...... reply
That depends on how much you trust your parents. I was scared to tell my religious mother that I like yaoi, but in the end she didn't really care. I told her because we're very close despite our differences and I believed she wouldn't ruin our relationship over somethig like that even if she didn't support it. She always said she didn't care what p...... 1 reply
My family is the same. I'm pan and questioning my gender. My dad's fam is homophobic af and my grandma is a devoted Christian. My mom says she doesn't care but if she knew it was her kid she would care. If you feel like you are ready to come out, then do it. Coming out is one of the hardest choices you will make,and no one but yourself can make tha...... 2 reply
The most straightforward method would be to constantly think about it, maybe try doodling the boy or writing about him. Dreams are usually at least vaguely related to something recent that you spent a lot of time focusing on. An example would be dreaming about a game right before the release date because you're excited to play it. Otherwise, if you...... 3 reply
