Hmm.. this is difficult because we only know your perspective of things, but hopefully this can help.
First- What are the things that you love about her? Is this common for her to do? Burst out in anger but regret it later? DOES she regret saying what she says?
Second - Its incredibly difficult to see a withering relationship, but ask yourself i...... reply
Wow I swear the same thing is happening with me! But hey never let it be! I guess you should tell her how you feel!! and I hope she'll understand :))
I couldn't tell my bff how I feel, and now we see each other for like once a week even tho we're in the same neighborhood. Haha and she has a new bff now¯_(ツ)_/¯ reply
I saw many talk their problems and talk about themselves here. I thought about my own and decided to talk it out.
I never knew I would receive heartfelf advises from you all.
Thank you all so very much. I feel a bit better now. I will call my bff right now and talk things out.
Thank you all again. reply
I know it seems simple but you should talk together, each other must tell their honest feelings even if it may hurt. You are friends since a long time ago so if you tell each other what you feel you should not break apart so easily.
Sorry for my English, hope I could help.
Best of luck ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~ 1 reply
If your friend can't understand that you want time to yourself then you are not at fault. You shouldn't feel guilty seeing as its your time and you can choose want. She shouldn't insult you just based on her pride and how you can't aways hang out or talk. Also threatening to block you? I think thats a bit much. Have you ever let her know how this m...... 1 reply
You should tell her your honest feelings, make her realize that you need some space and alone time as well. Tell her about how you honestly feel. Understand her and make her understand you. Know each other's true feelings. Settle the problem with her. Maybe you should distance yourself from her for some time and have a self-reflection. Through that...... reply
Well, if she really said all those things, she probably felt hurt about some of the things that happened between the two of you, and said them out loud in a fit of anger... She most likely didn't mean to feel that horrible over this one specific thing, but simply felt an overwhelming urge to let out all the feelings that she had been holding inside...... reply
Maybe the best solution is to apoligize to her because she may have been hurt in a way, but also tell her that you were not feeling like going out this weekend and that she has to understand that it isn't against her.
I don't think you did wrong but maybe it was important to her. If you want things to go better you might have to make sacrifices. ...... reply
I understand what you might be going through and I know for certain that it's very hard to lose a close friend. But if she's always making you feel negative emotions is she really that good of a friend to you??? She sounds rather selfish from what I've heard from your comment, and while it's true that friends have conflicts once in a while, if it's...... 1 reply