I'm aro ace (might be demi) so a fat guy is almost definitely a no. I'm too much of a complicated person and with sever case of misophonia; the person might be hella nice but I might get hella irritated, which I don't want to happen. 2 reply
By American standards I'm fat but in the Caribbean plump, curvy and gorgeous. I didn't start dating until I was 20 and I've been with my significant other for the last 10 years. So don't stress about dating, I'm glad I didn't date and go through the drama, fighting and bachannal otherwise I'd be a different person and wouldn't be with the person I'...... 1 reply
Yep cause I am not perfect too I have acne scars, stretch marks,.... so why would I judge a guy by his looks since I wouldn't want to be judged by my looks too . reply
Of course it’s usually personality over how you look but normally I wouldn’t date someone I know on a personal level ( since I pretty much friendzone them) so when I do date, it’s people I find attractive from the get go.
That aside, my standards for looks arent that high either in my opinion ? 1 reply
My bf is chubby, he is trying to lose weight because health but i dont really mind because when i look at him i dont see that, i see the man i love 1 reply
Why wouldn't I? it's true that looks matter, but for me it matters more the personality.
I've to say that whatever my future lover would be chubby, fat or skinny, if he/she doesn't like anime or if he/she would criticize me because I'm an otaku, then there would be the trouble.
not because of their body reply
I would not date a morbidly obese man. Meaning if he gets tired doing normal day to day activities, I would really dislike that. I prefer a man to have a “dad bod” where they have both muscles and fat. I weigh about 150 lbs and I am working towards getting to a healthier weight. It’s not really the aesthetics that bother me, but the mental as...... reply
