tbf this is an interesting place to come in and ask a nuanced question. most people told you that "only real flesh can make you lose your virginity "which is ... interestingly old greek lmao. but in a lot of countries where i grew up they equivocate virginity to the hymn although not accurate a lot of places with still conservative backward traditi...... reply
If you want to go by the literal definition of the word then you would be a virgin, but the image that the word "virgin" brings to mind (innocent, no sexual experience, young, "pure") may not apply to you, which is what could be making you hesitant to consider yourself a virgin. It's just purity culture bs, tbh.
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Depends what you consider a virgin. It can be just breaking the hymen, penetration or consensual sex. In my country breaking the hymen is considered losing virginity (even though you can break it on a bike or be born without it). In your case if you partner asks, you should explain detail, since your situation isn’t common. reply
virginity was created by men who though their dicks that are special enough to change a woman and who cares that u virgin or not. Literally only weirdos who have thing for virgins 1 reply