when they exist or live a life solely for their partner, like not just in bl but in general. like it demonstrates such an imbalance of power and extreme codependency bc if their partner leaves them then their basically cooked.. like u dont have any hobbies, passion, jobs, friends, connections, relatives or family members in ur life and u only live ...... reply
huh. so how do i go about this.
one-dimensional characters that were just put in a trope blender and pulled out with zero depth, be it the seme or the uke or the anything, really
and actually? i hate the whole seme/uke thing, too, like don't make it obvious???? i'm reading bl because i want to get AWAY from the power difference usually found in het...... reply
ah...tbh our country is really conservative so there's that. there's also the fact that at school i was literally the daughter of a teacher lol so no one considered asking me out
i did, however ask out my ex (then best friend). Like, at that point, our whole school was asking us if we were gay and tbh yeah??? we sure as hell were???? so at some poi...... 2 reply
i got asked out and now i have been in a relationship for 4 years ... idk, it wasnt a very interesting situation, he just asked me and then i said yes and that's it. we were friends for a year and a half prior to that. stay hopeful reply
Yeah no I've never been asked out, like ever. I just don't have that game. I mean I'm a nice person, maybe not the most attractive but not the ugliest either... reply
Ah...you know I've never been asked out. NEVER. the irony is people call me pretty, smart..and what not yet they never ask me out kind of hurts when my friends get asked out and here I am sitting like damn 4 reply
Three of my friends asked me out in a single month, then all proceeded to ghost me after I said no. AND THEN we went on a class trip for a week together. :)
This was about two years ago but it was the worst month of my life.
Now I just choose to do silly little things by myself cause I’m awesome.
(Apparently Im just so rizztastic that I unin...... 5 reply
Recs? I've also been loving short manga lately. It's so nice being able to start and finish a story in a single night. I can just shut off my brain and read. 2 reply