I'm sorry but I think you should just straight up tell them you don't like them saying that to you and correct them if they do it again instead of just staying quiet letting them say it even though it causes you discomfort
but sometimes people do forget it's okay as long as they apologize and try to correct themselves but if your friend just keep...... reply
Tell her you feel uncomfortable communication is key. I'm pretty sure she just doesn't understand why you don't feel comfortable with it, as it's a super popular phrase, but if she does keep saying it after you've explained to her, maybe it's time to idk like distance yourself from her...? Friends shouldn't make you feel insecure, and belittle your...... 1 reply