Your body is your own and others judgements of what you can or cannot do with it are invalid! Your worth is not defined by religious or societal patriarchal double-standards! Live your life and explore! 1 reply
In some religions, masturbation is considered a sin, no matter your gender. I am a Nazerene christain, and I know that many people in our church think that it's wrong. If you're religious, and you're afraid that it might interfere with your values, do some theological research and come to your own conclusions. However, if religion isn't a concern f...... 4 reply
I just started masturbating when I was 20 (I'm 21 rn lol). I honestly had the same thoughts and feelings of guilt before since as we know, girls masturbating is often viewed as taboo ( 1 reply
Why would it be wrong everyone has sexual frustrations and if not handled could lead to several negative consequences. It is healthy to masturbate but like the saying goes "too much of a good thing is not a good thing". reply
I hope this wasn't influenced by some religion... Sticking fingers there isn't going to make you lose your virginity and especially not by reading BL. You need someone to lose it, so even if you insert a solid toy it still doesn't count as losing your virginity (at least that's how I see it). I know I heard the most silliest stories over the years ...... 1 reply
Well sex is not a bad thing. Being horny is normal too. At your age, I think a lot of people start exploring their sexualities and that's wonderful! But at the same time, not being able to control your desires may be concerning. It may lead to unhealthy habits and even addiction, who knows. Overall, I think you should try to practice self-control. ...... 1 reply
I am stunned that a person who has the ability to access this website and thus lives in a first world, liberal country has never been offered, or taken the offer for, sex education in school. Whether it is for religious or cultural reasons, you have either been done a disservice by your parents or you have done a disservice to yourself by choosing ...... 2 reply
What you are experiencing is perfectly normal. There isn't anything wrong with masturbation, gender has nothing to do with it (anyone who thinks otherwise is a fool or a troll). You just turned 17? Started to masturbate? Congratulations. Your body is doing its thing. Hormones! You don't really need to stop, and even if you start without realizing i...... 1 reply
There's nothing wrong with that, by the way you should do that.
Know your body, your tastes and be happy enjoying the sensations, is something we must learn in order to live well with yourself and other people (in this case if in a relationship)
I am 17 years old too and I have never dated anyone either, I don't know if I am the best person to ans...... 2 reply
