My sister is going through a bad divorce right now, and I can say with certainty the greatest perk of all is being your own person. Being independent, making decisions by yourself and for yourself. This doesn't apply to all relationships of course, but it is easy to become codependent that after a while you forget who you are without the other pers...... 1 reply
I'm going to agree with many other posters here and say: free time.
As someone with very limited free-time, how I choose to spend it is very important to me. If I want to laze all day in my pajamas and read manga online, then I can. If I want to binge watch a show for ten hours, I can. If I want to do jack shit, then that's what I do. reply
SO MUCH PERKS! So much time to do the stuff I always wanted to do, no need to reply his/her texts, no need to deal with his/her jealousy or having stupid fights because of misunderstandings. I don't need to give anyone satisfaction of where I'm going or when I'm going back. I can wear whatever I want without having to hear that I'm not "feminine" (...... reply
Nothing wrong with you. Everyone has their pace and the time of doing stuff. Just because most people do it, doesn't mean you have to. Just take your time :) and there's no such thing as shit personality, everyone has something interesting that they have no idea they have. And the concept of "beautiful" is socially crafted. And plus, everyone has a...... 1 reply
Sweetie, the way is getting professional help. We here can talk allmighty all we want, but nothing compares to someone who has deep knowledge and scientific background to actually help you effectively. In my opinion, it's nothing wrong with you, it's just how society works this century. We think we need to be the same as the others to fit in, but t...... 1 reply
I don’t think your dislike of speaking in public situations has major ties to your self doubt as a lot of people struggle with this. And perhaps you were over analysing what your boyfriend was sending you, he may have just been trying to act like how he thinks a boyfriend should act like in the movies, send loving cheesy texts of love and affecti...... reply
Why do you think so little of yourself? Living like this just sounds suffocating.
He sent you words of affection? Well, he may even mean every single word he wrote or said to you. Every person is different and has an own strong point, that attracts others. People like him, who (at least it sounds like it) are quite popular with others, are able to...... reply
I don't know about the situation, so I am going to talk about what I know about my previous relationships. I really don't know if it applys to you at all.
Sometimes people make you feel bad while making it seem as if they are trying to make you feel good. It might be the way they say it or other things they say that don't seem related.
Some people ...... reply
I"ve been married for 14 years now and we have been together for about 16 years. My self esteem is very low one could say gutter scum thinks better of its self than I do of myself. But even with all my low self esteem my hubby still loves me and praises me. He says I'm pretty and all that stuff though in my mind I don't see how he could think such ...... reply
It´s the first time since I was 14 (now 34) that I haven´t had any boy/girlfriend for more than a year (now it´s three). Personally I love having my schedules and routines and more time for myself. Also, sleeping by myself is NOICE (๑•̀ㅂ•́)و✧ reply
