I think there are many people on the same boat (me included) so it’s not that you are alone and about normal I don’t know who gets to decide what’s normal as for me being like this is normal. As long as you’re happy and satisfied then nothing wrong in it. If not then you can always try new things. 1 reply
I don't think it's weird. If you want to fall in live, you just gotta try harder. I have a phobia of men, or rather I am super uncomfortable with guys (even my own family) and I also can't handle skin to skin contact at all, so relationships are not really in the near future for me. I'm also not pretty based on society standards, and I still want t...... reply
I'm an 18 year old girl who can't stay in a room with another dude for more than a minute because I start overwhelming myself thinking that they are thinking about me in any way.
I fantasize being with a guy, romantically, but am too scared to actually find one.
I tend to think about someone that does not exist in my world to smother my unconsciou...... 1 reply
I'm 11 years older than you, and let me say you: never and ever compare yourself to others...
I had my first kiss at 23 years old... It wasn't a love kiss at all, I did it cause everyone said how wonderfull was... later, I had lot of dates and eventually I got a boyfriend... We married, had a child, but we're separated now...
Of course I had one...... 1 reply
I'm in the same situation as you, except that I did go on dates with the guys who asked me to and it was interesting but it never worked out.
Noticing the fact that I backed off everytime, I actually took the time to define what qualities I want my boyfriend to have. (Mostly selfconfidence and humor)
I came to the conclusion that the problem reall...... reply
I think everyone here feels the same including myself. I know exactly what you feel with guys. Even I get bored of them and stop texting them for days without any reason. I ignore their texts something because again, the conversation gets boring. I'm 26 and never had a boyfriend.
In my opinion, I think you haven't found a guy who can really talk t...... reply
I'm 26 and have been single all my life. Girl, I get what you are saying but you got to think about it. You have to have the confidence and love yourself before looking for a relationship. Language doesn't matter since English is not my first language. And you are fine with your English.
I rather find the one than waste my time in dating random gu...... 1 reply
never had a boyfriend and i've seen friends or classmates getting together but i'm not that interested in being in one. i actually think it's quite tiresome and annoying (at times) especially when you still need to focus on your studies. of course, i'd rather spend my free time playing games, watching anime, reading yaoi etc...unless i got someone ...... reply
Group date. It helps with the whole social thing. If you are uncomfortable with a one on one setting. While interacting with people figure out your own comfort zone. It may just be that you are uncomfortable with online interactions with strangers in a romantic setting. Or if you are like me you attract some weirdness. People build feelings differe...... reply
Some people just jump into the relationship pool right off the bat and they suck at it. Others just need to take some time to figure out who they are interested in. Girls I've grown up with started dating at 13 and are miserable and single at 26. While others wait till they are 22 and are happily married to the love of their lives now. Everyone is ...... 1 reply
