You should just do it however and with whomever you feel comfortable with. Make sure it is safe and consensual for both parties and forget about the rest. Virginity is just a made up thing so why should you be embarrassed by it? If you are still freaking then just think everyone is a virgin at some point.
On a side note there are plenty of people...... reply
The greatest perk of being single for me is not getting hurt.I don't have to cry when we break up.I don't need to feel heartbroken when I see that person cheating.I don't need to feel sad when we fight.I don't need to feel jealous.So that's why I think it's the greatest perk for me.
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Omg,it's so weird how we have the exact same story,like,spot on.I am also really bad at speaking,I was fat when I was young,and I can't take it when a couple are making out in front of me,it makes me jealous.
So i'm like #Single4Ever ╥﹏╥ (even tho i don't want this) reply
I'm an American and the MY English is probably as close as it gets to sounding like gibberish most of the time. So don't sweat it. I try to say one thing and it comes out like an alien said it. From the way you write your question it's obvious you're not as bad as you think. I'm 17 and I've also never dated anyone. And I'm shy and currently I'm con...... reply
Stop degrading yourself. There's nothing wrong with you. There's a lot of people on this planet and if the people around you are too blind to notice you, just remember your soul mate is still out there probably trying to find you as well. It's not weird at all and you are as normal as it gets. Not everyone turns around and gets a relationship, no ...... reply
Hi
I'm 20 years old female and feel exactly like you. Like really the same on all the points you mentionned. I also struggled about it during my high school years, and now college days. I realised this summer I may be Aromantic.
It means " a lack of/little of romantic attraction" ( to put it simply)
I suggest you do some research on it, and try to...... 2 reply
save that time and energy for yourself, since you're the one constant in your life, lol. i wouldn't waste my time and emotional energy interacting with people i really didn't need to. it's okay to be callous there. you're not obligated to give dudes the time of day. and while you should try things out if you want to put yourself out there, if you'r...... 1 reply
I dont think its that weird, 6 months and im on the same boat as you are right now. Since no one knows me personally in reality here, i'd say, its kinda my fault because im not socially active, im afraid of crowds/people/society, i have a high defense mechanism against anyone trying to get close to me lol but then im weirdly loyal, what imean...... reply
I'm 24 and I've never kissed anyone, never been in a relationship but I don't think Im weird at all. if I have to be in a relationship right now I think I'm gonna puke hehe maybe because I love having the single life.
Well I hope in the future we will both find someone who sweep us off our feet (▰˘◡˘▰) reply
24 virgin who is really stressed and almost burnt out med student. Sometimes, I feel like, 'I should just get laid' and then I think I waited this long might as well do it with someone I love or at least like. Guess I will be waiting for some more time. reply
