I'm single because it's really hard for me to find someone who would wait to have sex for an undefined amount of time... Every time I've thought about dating there has been people interested but we'll talk for a few days and they start heading towards sexy times and I'm not comfortable with that yet. If I tell them why either they say they're fine ...... 2 reply
I'm single right now because I choose to be.
While what you stated may have been true for me in the past (Like a lack of self confidence, fear of people and rejection) today i find it more convenient and healthier for myself to have all of my stuff together before I dive into a relationship.
I'm pretty social now a days and I like meeting new peop...... reply
Like the answer before mine, i'm a bit antisocial, plus my problem is a mix of the "options" of the question, but most of all, having an omnivert personality (https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Omnivert link for who doesn't know what an omnivert is) i see, especially a romantic relationship, as kind of exhausting/draining/taxing....so ...... 1 reply
im pretty antisocial so i havent really met anyone in real life who genuinely interests me. i guess im content with my life the way it is but if i eventually meet someone one day who i would literally die for, then sure, maybe i'll start a relationship with them. its just that right now, im pretty busy so i dont have time to meet anyone and have da...... reply
So, for people who is single now, let's face it, are you single bc your self-confidence is low or bc you are afraid of relationships, people, rejection tc? I know some people don't like relationship bc it's inconvenient, but I kinda feel that they are lying to themselves (maybe?)
The obvious is that he already factored in your lifestyle and still made the decision to ask you out, so unless he's planning to turn you into a fitness project, just enjoy his abs.
The only problem (if any of the parts in a relationship decide to make it a problem) is time managing and priority allocations. Some people take body building way too ...... 1 reply
You don't have to do work outs to date someone fit. If you don't want to, he won't force you or leave you only for that, especially if you're not overweight and you're healthy. However, you might want to keep your mind open to sports and tiny work outs. Sports dates are really fun. ;) Doesn't mean it has to be every week, though.
So yeah. Just be ...... reply
Honey,I personally think that it's totally fine to date someone who's fitter than you.And I understand your concern,but the durability of a good relationship depends on the people's emotions for each otherBeing fit or not is a choice, him not liking the fact that you work out or not shouldn't concern you going out if he likes you and you consider h...... reply
So I was asked out by a guy who is really fit. Like, he has abs. Now, I'm not overweight, and I've learned to love and accept my body the way it is, so I'm comfortable with myself for the most part, but I'm nervous about what he will think of me since I don't work out. I mean, I eat well, and am healthy other than the fact that I'm not very active. I just. I don't know. This is the second time I've ever been asked out and the first time ended up in disaster. I just wondered if anyone could give me some advice.
