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The real reason you're single
So, for people who is single now, let's face it, are you single bc your self-confidence is low or bc you are afraid of relationships, people, rejection tc? I know some people don't like relationship bc it's inconvenient, but I kinda feel that they are lying to themselves (maybe?)
I'm single because it's really hard for me to find someone who would wait to have sex for an undefined amount of time... Every time I've thought about dating there has been people interested but we'll talk for a few days and they start heading towards sexy times and I'm not comfortable with that yet. If I tell them why either they say they're fine ...... 2 reply
Let me ask you this: why are you taken? Is it for external validation, sex, or maybe fear that if you don't grab one at your prime you'll be alone forever? Maybe you're lying to yourself about being happy, and really are trying to compensate for something you lack.
Jk but you get the idea. As strange as it might seem I'm perfectly content alone wi...... 1 reply
I love potentiality more than actualization—in the realm of potentiality, everything is a possibility. Nothing is set in stone. Regret cannot trespass on what has not yet transpired.
Singledom is, let's face it, easy. I'm having brunch in my unmade bed, spread-eagled and slothful. I haven't had to tidy my room in a month. Call it avoidance and c...... 5 reply
I'm gonna tell you honestly, my parents promised me they'd buy me a car and a house if I stayed single until I graduate college (we even made a contract and I was in 6th grade back then lol)
I had crushes asking me out and even people from other schools/university who I don't even know, hitting me up in my inbox. I wasn't interested in dating an...... 3 reply
I've dated a few people in my 18 years of life, but what I realised was that I was inlove with the idea of being in a relationship, but not necessarily my partner. It was honestly hard for me to come to terms with this, but I do believe that many people choose to be single because it's inconvenient. Sometimes you have to take some time for yourself...... 3 reply
I'm grey-romantic like I can fall in love sometimes but dating is "hard", like it takes time and it feels complicated.
love is a complicated feeling for me to grasp.
also if I date and break up i might be like whatever because i didn't get time to fall in love.
I could be in a casual relation but if one of us catches feelings it feels unfair (bu...... 2 reply
