Self confidence, I want someone who is emotionally and mentally mature (which doesn't fit the category of my age group lol), and I want to wait until I'm done with school, college included. reply
Real reason is probably because I just realized I might be aromantic lol. When I was younger I was jealous of my friends because they were all in relationships and I wasn't. When I entered college I dated and did all sorts of things but I don't think I was ever really in love with my partners.
I haven't really dated in years mostly because I never...... reply
the thing is im not desperate and i was raised by chinese parents so the full concept of love and dating wasnt put in my mind and im happy my parents didnt tell me to focus on love until im old enough cause relationships are so messy... reply
LONG ASS STORY. i just felt like i need to let it out because I've been holding it in for so long.
i have very low confidence and I am very afraid of relationships (i was labeled as "the weirdo" because i listen to podcasts and i love VKEI + I'm pretty much a boring introverted person with only 1 friend) . As a gay Chinese guy myself, I'm pretty m...... 2 reply
gonna make a list just so i don't get lost lol
•first, i'm an introvert who doesn't interact to other people that much. heck, i'm not even active on social medias
•i'm ugly and very insecure about myself. there's like 11 girls in my class and i'm the one with the biggest body build. they're all small and thin compared to me being tall and fat...... 1 reply
Just got out of a 2 year relationship, my standards are currentyl too fucking high "oh you're putting me in the mummy fuck toy box because you haven't developed your Theory of Mind for women shaped things box? Oh okay! grow up reply