Having Friends

Good Days
Good day in my mind, safe to take a step out
Get some air now, let your edge out
Too soon, I spoke, you be heavy in my mind
Can you get the heck out?
I need rest now, got me bummed out
You so, you so, you, baby, baby, babe
I've been on my empty mind shit
I try to keep from losin' the rest of me
I worry that I wasted the best of me on you, baby
You don't care
Said, not tryna be a nuisance, it's just urgent
Tryna make sense of loose change
Got me a war in my mind
Gotta let go of weight, can't keep what's holding me
Choose to watch
While the world break up and fall on me
All the while, I'll await my armored fate with a smile
Still wanna try, still believe in (good days)
Good days, always (good days)
Always inside (always in my mind, always in my mind, mind)
Good day living in my mind
Tell me I'm not my fears, my limitations
I disappear, if you let me
Feeling like (on your own)
Feeling like Jericho
Feeling like Job when he lost his shit
Gotta hold my own, my cross to bear alone, I
Ooh, paid a deal, way to kill the mood
Know you like that shit, yeah, groovy baby, baby
Heavy on my empty mind shit
I gotta keep from losin' the rest of me (losin' the rest of me)
Still worry that I wasted the best of me on you, babe
You don't care
Said, not tryna be a nuisance, it's just urgent (it's urgent)
Tryna make sense of loose change
Got me a war in my mind (my mind)
Gotta let go of weight, can't keep what's holding me
Choose to watch
While the world break up and fall on me
All the while, I'll await my armored fate with a smile
Still wanna try, still believe in (good days, good days on my mind)
good days (good days on my mind)
Always sunny inside (always in my mind, always in my mind, mind)
Good day living in my mind
Gotta get right, tryna free my mind before the end of the world
I don't miss no ex, I don't miss no text
I just choose not to respond
I don't regret, just pretend shit never happened
Half of us layin' waste to our youth, is in the present
Half of us chasin' fountains of youth and it's in the present now
Always in my mind, always in my mind, mind
You've been making me feel like I'm
Always in my mind, always in my mind, mind

I’m just know seeing the replies to
http://www.mangago.me/thing/about/385192/


A lot of the replies are “if someone is/said *terrible disgusting thing* I should be able to tell them to k/ll themselves”. No you f/cking shouldn’t.

I get that it feels like sh/t to see something triggering and you want to lash out. The people I’m talking about that you shouldn’t tell to k/ll themselves have triggered me TODAY. But that isn’t an excuse. It’s comparable to someone calling you a slur and you directing a different slur back at them. You’re both saying disgusting heinous sh/t. The other person might be worse but that isn’t a reason to be sh/tty back.


Also I don’t know if anyone has realized but even if you are okay with saying something terrible, that terrible thing you said (like kys) might trigger someone completely uninvolved with your argument..... Which is something you should really care about.

(And also: You aren’t getting anything done. Arguments should be productive or else it’s just two people spouting insults until they both leave and no one changes their mind. You aren’t going to insult someone into being a better person and insulting someone won’t make you feel any less hurt. If anything, all telling some to k/ll themselves accomplishes is; making them even less likely to listen to you or change their behavior. You’re working against you own interests.

And if your whole goal is to just make someone feel sh/tty for making you feel sh/tty, maybe examine why you feel the need to do that.)

-OP of the linked post