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Oof the amount of times I've had the "it's just fiction" argument, oh my god. To say that fiction doesn't affect reality is crazy. For better or worse, the media we consume hugely impacts the society we live in, including shaping what people see as normal and acceptable. There's a reason people write theses and teach classes on the cultural impact ......   1 reply
31 05,2026
People when you tell consuming overwhelming amount of porn that sexualizes children and violent act might desensitizes them to the topics and make their brain connect children to their sexual arousal like guys it's a well known fact the more hardcore stuff you consume the more you'll want which leads to more and more hardcore stuff   1 reply
31 05,2026
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30 05,2026
I decided to do a quick Google search. 3 questions to give Google a fair change to gather info. Fiction does not affect reality Fiction does affect reality Does fiction affect reality? Just a quick Google search summary. Overall consensus: fiction does affect reality, in terms of social cognition, personal belief, and empathy. It doesn't m......   1 reply
30 05,2026
It's okay just don't bother them and find yourself a better man. Meet with new people, you can do that while trying new hobbies   reply
30 05,2026
If it's really just fiction, why do they get so mad over someone else's opinion on a random fictional rapist? Why is explicit loli/shota content banned and considered illegal in most places? Why have i seen chlorine telling a rape victim to get raped again for not liking a fictional story that romanticizes rape? The truth is, the ones who can actua......   1 reply
30 05,2026
Ain't reading allat selana gomez   reply
30 05,2026
I agree with the other users, of course you can't suddenly stop liking him but even so you have to respect his relationship and keep boundaries   reply
30 05,2026
Just respect his relationship??? How is this even a question   reply
30 05,2026
Girl, you need to respect it. Even if it’s a long distance relationship, it still deserves respect. You already knew he was in a relationship, yet you chose to become a little obsessed with him, and that’s not okay. Put yourself in his girlfriend’s shoes and ask yourself if you would still think that’s appropriate. I know you liked him firs......   reply
30 05,2026
Ik this isn’t exactly a place to share sumn like this but I have no one to talk to abt this that’s why I’m here but yeah like the title said

I’m rlly good frnds with this guy like we’re just genuinely really good normal friends we have clear boundaries and he’s a very respectful man but the thing is I like him ,I’ve had a crush on him even before we became frnds
As we became good frnds I learned that he’s in a long distance relationship with a girl from an another city and it’s serious between em because they’ve literally been together for 6 years

Despite knowing all these things I still like him and it makes me feel so damn guilty at times while we’re talking, at some point I thought I’d get over this silly crush of mine when I learnt that he had a gf but no as we became good frnds I just started liking him even more and I don’t think that will change because he really is a great guy

And the other thing is my friend is also friends with him but not as close as I am with him and everytime she tells me they spoke or tells me sumn from their conversation it kinda pisses me off

But I find it ridiculous that I get jealous over my frnd talking to him rather than me knowing he has a gf, maybe it’s the fact that they’re in a long distance that it doesn’t bother me, meanwhile me him and my frnd are irls and literally in the same uni

Idk I just feel very weird abt this situation and I don’t like the fact that I’m feeling and thinking these types of things idk I feel very lost abt all this

So thank u if you’ve read this so far and heard me out, I’d like ur advice on this and tell me what u think abt this whole situation
30 05,2026

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