idk where you heard that from but i havent heard any wlw claiming that yaoi was founded by wlw?? its common knowledge that yaoi is usually drawn by straight women for straight women, especially because yaoi couples are often extremely heteronormative (seme = very manly, uke = very feminine).
theres nothing wrong with reading mlm fiction as a heter...... 1 reply
I’m not going to lie you sound very problematic.
You are putting all queer women under one umbrella due to what seems like a few bad experiences. I have never in my entire life seen one queer women say, “yaoi was founded by lgbt+ women” which is 100% a false statement. Yaoi the large majority of the time is written by straight women for strai...... 4 reply
Dykes dont care about dick. They just jelly that we aint throwing ourselfs at them.
Tldr: stfu bitches. Attractive men are hot. Stay mad carpet munchers.(づ￣ ³￣)づ 6 reply
I fully agree like it really doesn't become a problem until people start "shipping" real people together. I use that term loosely because I always say I ship my friend and her bf. anyways its an issue when its strangers and your imagination gets going (unless its porn than thats the point). thats when the creeping begins. if guys can watch yuri wit...... 1 reply
Woah didn't know it was founded by an lgbtq+ person. I thought it was a from a woman with a bl fetish. Oh well! ╮(￣▽￣)╭ I don't give two sh*ts about what they have to say about my yaoi fetish. I recently came to like yaoi when I learned that it's not really about supporting lgbtq+( although I've seen seen some like that and ignore it.) Yo...... 2 reply
short answer no ╮(￣▽￣)╭
the long answer is there will always be kink shamers out there whether your fetish is gay men, furries, bdsm, feet, etc. my advice is just ignore them there's always gonna be someone preaching i'm lgbtq+ so i got a lot of hate in the past from my country christians or hillbillies calling it perverted for "liking" ...... 3 reply
Interesting question and take on it, other than rape fetishisation, what are your thoughts on where general consuming and appreciation of yaoi content ends and fetishisation begins?
btw this is coming from a cis bi woman 1 reply
y'all are just as capable of fetishizing gay men as well. fyi, being lgbtq+ doesnt give you a free pass and y'all love to pull the "yaoi was founded by lgbtq+ women and they used it to express themselves reeeeee" yeah bc expressing yourself through r@pe fetishism between gay men is something to be proud of. big yikes. (the fact that yaoi esp. from pre 2010 era is known for its romanticism of r*pe is pretty creepy ngl). there is nothing wrong w consuming mlm content as a woman straight or not just dont be a creep about it. it's not hard. im all for addressing problematic behavior but lbr, lgbtq+ women are quick to call out straight women while simultaneously doing the same thing
