Yup reading yaoi and stanning kpop idol rotting ma brain. I'm confused bout myself now. Feels like I was born in the wrong sex and feels kinda bi but actually not but yea confused reply
I know you said you don't do that shit, but if, as an mlm person, you hypothetically called me either of those or even just asked me if I was top/bottom irl I would be more than happy to beat the living shit out of you until you were within an inch of your life, and even that would not come close to being cathartic enough for me to not still be abs...... 1 reply
I mean there is a point where liking yaoi could be turned into fetishism like fuCKIng sAYING real life gay couples are like "a rEAl lIfe yAOI" or calling guys in a gay relationship "seme" or "uke" when really irl those things don't matter. One of my friends claims she likes yaoi but really she is fucked up in the head saying "I wish i could be a gu...... reply
FUCKING YES. It’s really fucking bad. Gay people are human beings. That’s dehumanizing. Real people are semes or ukes. Gay people aren’t yaoi characters. reply
First of all you’re assuming their sexuality, then you’re shoving a sexual position and probably making them HELLA uncomfortable. I do sometimes try to guess people hobbies, habits, or traits even when I don’t know them, but that’s from me wanting to be a therapist place not me being a fucking fetishizer. It’s like how since I’m Asian e...... 1 reply
I mean it's already weird calling other people top/bottom, what more if you call them uke/seme, /mostly/ a s3x label that is used for fictional characters.
It's like your treating them like a mere Character for your little story, all in all it's weird and disrespectful
But that's just my insight, it's probs better to listen to actual mlm people reply
YES it is that bad, u are fetishizing people quite blatantly at that point, it’d be creepy to anyone if they were labeled that way in real life, keep ur fiction to fiction and reality to reality reply
