Have An Unpopular Opinion

I've noticed whenever someone says a opinion that yall don't agree with they get attacked. Yall say "you are toxic" but go and start bullying them for their view so doesn't that also make you just as toxic? Or does that not apply to you because you are attacking the "toxic" person. It's their opinion who cares? It's not a fact. I don’t see the problem and why they get so much hate. And I'm not talking about the obvious troll posts though technically that is their opinion also. I mean mostly like the unpopular opinion stuff for instance the way women should dress, abortion. Controversial topics. It's like people are trying to force this sheep mentality. If you don’t think like me then you are toxic and you get canceled. I wish that instead of attacking folks people asked "What makes you say that?, Why do you feel that way?" Get the reasoning behind why they think that way and vice versa instead of blindly hating because I don't know maybe they would actually make good points.
I'm probably going to get hate for this but whats new.