i dont think its when you read bl for the plot, characters, etc but its when people think mlm couples are just play things, idk if thats the right word but for example when people look at a gay couple if they immediately think. “Omg i wonder whos the top and bottom” “Have they fucked before, i know they have”
And things like that. In my opi...... reply
It's fetishizing when you take it into the real world and are expecting actually gay people and actual gay couples to act like BL characters and are wanting them to do certain things or are like in their comments requesting 'things' or 'acts' from them like their expected to show it to you and getting I guess turned on from it. This is different fr...... reply
i get the idea of "racist bad" but i guess my question is, do you? it's targeting a marginalized group/minority, but like, a lot of it is porn with the intention of making the audience horny to begin with so i can't say for sure whether it's a good or bad thing. to call the act of consuming fiction about two characters having sex "fetishization" is...... reply
i really don't get it either. if what you're saying is actually true then isn't watching straight porn or hentai also fetishizing? don't come at me y'all. just tryna learn(￣∇￣") reply
You shouldve googled this if you really want to know and educate yourself. Now watch how people make fun of you instead of explaining why its wrong. 2 reply
Well apart from the horny part---it depends if you're literally obsessed with it (((For an example, Fujioshi))). Yes, it can be offensive to gay people cuz they are being fetished. It's no real problem if you read BL, but if your obsessed, that's lowkey a problem. reply
