Gee, maybe that's because it's an entire genre built upon decades of fetishizing and objectifying mlm people. Even if you don't personally partake in problematic behaviors and mindsets, you're still supporting a genre that exists and, more importantly, *profits* because of those things.
And not a bunch of non-mlm people trying to decide what is an...... 1 reply
When out in public, do see gay couples and get aroused? If not, then your not fetishizing gay men. BL, GL, Straight, or whatever you're into, it's all porn if it's got a sex scene. Does reading hetero erotica mean you're fetishizing straight couples? NO! Stop feeling guilty for enjoying BL. reply
Its Okay Too like yaoi,, there's difference between Enjoying the concept of yaoi and Fetishizing Gay men.. if U Fetishize real Gay men Like As if they act the same As Yaoi Or Treat them differently (whether it's Something pervert Or bad whatever) that is Very bad..ur not Fetishizing Gay While Reading yaoi.. you're fetishizing Gay people when u set ...... 2 reply
i’ve been feelings really guilty lately... ever since bl got a ton of controversy through twitter and tiktok i’ve been feeling really uneasy reading bl. i still read it ofc but whenever a sex scene pops up there’s always something in the back of my mind telling me “you’re fetishizing gay men” and it makes me feel so so guilty!!
i’ve been reading bl/gl since 2019 and since then it’s been my serotonin. but there’s people saying that gl fetishizes lesbians and bl fetishizes gay men and now idek anymore
I don't really care what she looks like, but I would like it if she was taller than me. She would be extremely dominant. Their hobbies would be to be rough me and do SM. And their job would be to fuck me really hard and do bdsm. reply
As long as they work, get home by 8pm the latest, maybe blond, but prefer my hands attached to my body and the blood kept internal. I don't mind if they want to be a lawyer as long as they don't go around stealing kisses from their adopted brothers girlfriend and also, they can't have an adopted brothers body fetish since that's gross. 1 reply
Yoshikage Kira. I'm 33 years old. My house is in the northeast section of Morioh, where all the villas are, and I am not married. I work as an employee for the Kame Yu department stores, and I get home every day by 8 PM at the latest. I don't smoke, but I occasionally drink reply
My answer real crazy BUTTTTT I LIKE DOM, RICH, YANDERE, AND HANDSOME BOISSS WITH A BIG THING THING, But since there yandere I'd want one that like works with me and if the second male lead gets in the way there'll be heated, I HAVE ONE OF HELL DREAM GUY >:) 1 reply