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itz_G 20 12,2023
has anyone told you have impeccable timing? thank you very much for this, very much needed this rn   1 reply
20 12,2023
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Whitelotus_xoxo1234 20 12,2023
I never expected a random person on mangago to have such good points and life advice Thanks man ️️️   1 reply
20 12,2023
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ankle devotee 20 12,2023
ummm are you trying to call me out? im not the least bit depressed though, just stressed out from alot of work. ehh honestly im kinda of a weird case but whenever times get a bit rough, i just cope and it goes away. is that bad? like im not pushing it away, im just burning in the fire until it goes out. i barely talk it out with my friends, but whe......   1 reply
20 12,2023
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kamisama
20 12,2023
ur journal rant is making me rant/think too the fact this made me think of one of my close friends she wants to stop complaining and feeling sad but every night she wants to cry (and gets upset when she doesn’t). she wants to enter a ghosting phase because she believes she is too dependent on others and their reactions/words, because without co......   1 reply
20 12,2023
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basement dweller
20 12,2023
shit man you got me sitting up in bed and thinking deeply about my life choices now i came here to read silly goofy yaoi   1 reply
20 12,2023
real   1 reply
20 12,2023
pity parties [Answer]
Huh
20 12,2023
"drowning urself in media, such as hyper sexual manhwa and shows— is most certainly NOT going to help you" Never felt more called out   2 reply
20 12,2023
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20 12,2023
hi i’m shart and i’m here to tell you some things because i was supposed to write in my journal but i’m too lazy to go grab it (next two paragraphs are kinda like filler, feel free to skip)

depression doesn’t really go away. i was a mess for 6 years and now i’m less of a mess, i found a lifestyle that makes me happy. honestly i’m pretty satisfied despite the fact that i still want to unsubscribe from life every once in a while (whether it be from buried emotions or the smallest inconvenience)

let me say this, though: drowning urself in media, such as hyper sexual manhwa and shows— is most certainly NOT going to help you. escapism is never really good, especially when u have such a state of mind. i haven’t clicked something inappropriate in a while, and to be frank i’m proud of myself for it. it only ends with feelings of self disgust and loathing (am i projecting? yes. but ur my journal right now so that doesn’t matter). at some point u realize, ‘hey maybe i should stop’. the urge will come back anyway, it’s up to u if u want to continue enabling it

now let’s talk about pity parties. when you’re depressed for so long, you find comfort in sadness. why is this bad, you ask? (act like you did)
because then u won’t feel the need to actually CHANGE anything and you’ll be a miserable lump forever

why bother making an effort to achieve happiness when u can just go ‘boohoo’ and then go read some smut or angst to validate urself?

if you’re interested, my journal, then here’s a method i have tried
whenever u start to pity yourself, specifically about something that clouds ur mind and it’s the only thing u can think about — say it out loud.
because lemme tell you, there’s only so many times u can say “_____ sucks” or “i’m sad because of ______” before you get sick of urself

which is great! if u don’t get sick of hearing urself complain all the time then idk, dawg
why’re you letting PAST experiences dictate your present and future? do you WANT to live like this forever? i hope not!

ur going to become like that friend that complains about that toxic boyfriend but refuses to break up with them. and what do we always say about that? WAKE UP AND BREAK UP

anyway, thanks for listening, my journal.
twas greatly appreciated and i hope we can both stop shackling ourselves with the disease called pity parties ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶
20 12,2023
The fuck did I just read?!   1 reply
18 12,2023
I once thought I was an extremely intelligent monkey that was wanted by the government. I thought I'd been living disguised as a human until now, but my true identity had been discovered and now the government was hunting me down to experiment on me It only lasted for a few seconds but my heart was racing for a while after because I was genuinely t......   3 reply
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