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Mika
25 10,2023
Omg I meant ‘caldereta’ I was gonna fix the typo but forgot and can’t even edit it   1 reply
25 10,2023
Mika
25 10,2023
I’m eating rn and it just popped up in my head. What is a meal that brings nostalgia to you? Or what’s ur fav dish in general?

Mine would have to be beef caldera which is a Filipino dish. I gobble it up every time ╰(*´︶`*)╯♡
25 10,2023
Redemption arc [Answer]
i8dxgf
25 10,2023
I love redemption arcs so much, but the thing is, most BLs have the worst redemptions, especially in comparison to what the character did. Most of the time, the ML literally rapes the MC. If it's not trivialised, glorified, or just forgotten (which is common let's be honest), then we get like one chapter "arc" of the ML asking for forgiveness (and ......   1 reply
25 10,2023
Redemption arc [Answer]
あみ
25 10,2023
yeahh it depends on who youre asking but my point is that they leave each other even though the person has redeemed themselves. if ur gonna redeem yourself, you're gonna to have to as much as you did harmed; that is if you didnt fuck up hella bad like if you did the worse most irredeemable thing, for example someone said, rape, sure you can be b......   1 reply
25 10,2023
Redemption arc [Answer]
toilet terrorist
25 10,2023
Heres my rule, rape is an irredeemable crime, a rapist can change but that doesnt make them redeemable. Pushing the notion that sexual violence is something that can be compensated for is a harmful rehoric, there is nothing that can conpensate for sexual violence which is why even if the ML/FLs have changed i will never like them. Jaeshin from Nigh......   3 reply
25 10,2023
Redemption arc [Answer]
alex ☠ 25 10,2023
it always depends on who the person is, but doing fucked up shit like rape is irredemable and once a person is irredemable in a relationship you cannot continue. thats a trauma that cannot heal with the person who hurt you in the vicinity. and rapists deserve their genitals cut off on god. i honestly hate the trope of them finding new partners caus......   2 reply
25 10,2023
Redemption arc [Question]
Nobody 25 10,2023
Reading all the comments on Jinx has given me so many topic ideas, and I’m curious to know some of your thoughts and opinions about redemption.

I see a lot of people saying ML is beyond redemption or that even with a redemption arc, they still won’t forgive him. I get that, and I don’t read Jinx, so I don’t have strong feelings one way or another.

Anyway, it got me thinking, a while back I watched a Turkish dizi called Istanbullu Gelin, and in that series, the main character’s best friend marries a guy that has lots of issues. He has anger management issues and one time he beat her silly. She eventually convinces him to seek therapy and he starts going, but initially he’s not taking it seriously. His wife finally divorces him, but she’s pregnant so he’s not completely out of her life. Long story short, in the end he continues going to therapy and redeems himself, but she doesn’t get back with him. Both of them moved on and were better partners to their new loves due to their past relationship.

I liked that resolution. A character was redeemed and part of that redemption was due to a love interest, but in the end they had hurt each other too much to function as a couple.

Seeing as most stories have redemption arcs that end up with the original couples, would you prefer to read more stories where a horrible character initially starts their redemption arc due to their current love interest, but in the end they each find new loves? Or keep the status quo and have a “love conquers all” type story?

Like I said, I don’t read Jinx, but from what I can see in the comments I think something like ML realizing he’s been shit and starting his redemption due to his feelings for MC, but then in the end after all he’s done to MC each of them finding new loves would work better. You can forgive someone and still not want a romantic relationship with them anymore.

Especially when many times a potential second love interest is introduced, and usually that second love would be a better choice anyway.

Opinions?
25 10,2023
A lot of things but I think one is that I subconsciously never argue back to my parents even when I’m doing something I don’t want to do. Another is that I get happy when I throw up “naturally” (like when I’m sick or smth, without needing to like physically force myself) not sure if this is a ED or not   1 reply
24 10,2023
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24 10,2023
U should put a habit in reducing your hours gradually and reward yourself each time you succeed, try out new hobbies or try to be productive while on this site, its not healthy to be on a device constantly without a break so please make sure you take a break.   reply
24 10,2023
Veiny hands, THICCC ass   reply
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