Should've probs worded it better because i saw the 20s and then the 11 years older THEN the 2 years in a rs so when I did the math I automatically thought you were 18 and he was 29 I was concerned lmao
Anyway age gaps aren't really a problem if both parties met when they're adults (18 and 19 year olds excluded) It only turns problematic when the ...... 1 reply
To me, anything more than 5 years is weird. It's just something that I've always had as the limit for myself, and I find that most of my friends and partners have agreed.
But I'd say for anyone else as long as it is a healthy relationship, you were at least 20 when entering it, and the age gap isn't over 15 ish years, it's fine as long as it stay...... 1 reply
I mean you’re both consenting adults so I don’t see the problem as long as you guys are on the same page with things; personally I haven’t dated someone with that big of a gap, even 4 years was too much for me just because we wanted different things in life at the stages we were in. But that doesn’t seem to be a problem for you based on wha...... 1 reply
It's not the age gap, it's the age when you get into the relationship. If you're 21+ and that person is 11 years older than you, as long as both of you give consent, it's acceptable... Anyway, my teacher told us this piece of life advice (kind of lol) while dating men, go for men who are three years older than you, because the minds of men your a...... 2 reply
nothing about an early 20s (whose brain isn't fully developed) and a guy who is 11 years older says healthy relationship...i mean there are some exceptions but the advice you might get isn't worthwhile listening to 2 reply
Im in my early 20s and hes 11 years older than me. Weve been dating for 2 years now and hes treated me better than anyone (and i had pretty high emotional standards).
When i first met him I thought he was my age lmao, and i forget a lot how much older he is. Usually i remember when I make a brainrot tiktok comment or talk about yaoi LMAO
I just wanted to hear some stories on how yall make it work!
I agree, I think Lezhin already has monopolized the webtoon industry, at least in South Korea. And it's not a new problem. I read older (10+ year) manga from Japan and the issue is still present. I'm not east Asian or have ever taken part in those cultures but somewhere down the line I think SA and rape became part of the sex culture at least in so...... reply
