Ask her why she ghosted u and if u dont like the answer just get away from her ghosting is also a toxic trait and she done it for 4 fuckin years ma dear but even of u like the answer tell her that u cant be like u used to be and the reason is her choices
Ps: she may just want to be friend with u because of covid u know dont let your guard down e...... 2 reply
Umm be wary of her but don’t push her away because she might have gone through something hard, so she had do distance herself from you. I’m speaking from experience here, when I was going through a hard time and I almost lost all of my friends, I tried to distance myself from them, I wasn’t thinking straight because of my depression, stress a...... 1 reply
uhm maybe ask them why they wants to be back to being friends again and why they even decided the break the friendship in the first place? they might just want something from you. if you do want to restart the friendship i suggest going slow because its kinda sus that they want to restart the friendship all of a sudden. 1 reply
Bro write a novel on that, it'll be a blast-
Ok I'm sorry, I've never been in these situations before and have no idea. Just waiting for some helpful answers to trickle in for you.
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My best friend of 10years one day suddenly decided to stop being my friend and distanced herself. It broke my heart. But then suddenly after 4 years of silence she calls me and wants us to be like we used to. Idk what to do please help me out
I think u should give him a little space first than apologize to him for not sticking up for him than tell him that u wasn't ok with it even when he first said n word and try educate him. slavery wasnt long ago but people treat it as it was belive me in my country there is a product called n*gro they still didnt change the name and because it was n...... reply
He may be feeling betrayed because, if I'm understanding this right, you never verbally told him you didn't like it and you felt/feel uncomfortable with it. I think you should explain to him that you are uncomfortable with it and don't want him saying it. (Maybe explain why he shouldn't as well and see if he will listen).
If he doesn't you may wan...... reply
He shouldn't have said the N word cause it's used when black people become slaves long long ago it's like Really offensive..Tell him what he did wrong and tell him the meaning behind the n word..it's ur choice if u want to stay friends or not.Dont use this it might ruin ur friendship.this is just an advice u can use it or not..if u use this it migh...... reply