In one of my classes something happened where all of us added each other on snap. There was one guy who would from time to time, almost never though, say hi or we'd have like a 1 sentence exchange. I didn't think much of him until he started sending me selfies on snapchat all the time. Bc theres dudes who do that to flirt I thought it could be that or that he wanted to do streaks. I typically don't respond to that stuff unless its me telling them to chill. From there he went to casual kid in my class to annoying or fboy status. I ignored it bc if u don't reply ppl stop trying yk. Well soon after id catch him staring at me in class or see him randomly in the hall or cafeteria. I thought I could be tripping or maybe I just hadn't noticed him having the same hall paths as me before. HERES WHERE IT GOT EXTREME. He kept calling me on snap so I messaged him "?",later telling him to stop ,he didn't so I blocked him. He made a new acc and added me followed by pictures. The pics started with him showing cuts and then moved to actual vids of him doing it. There was some other stuff he did too and there was blood everywhere. He was going on about how he liked me was mad at me & that if didn't go out with him he'd yk...... I said I would, he fainted, I was calling & someone heard. The person updated me told me he went to the hospital & was fine. They said he was gonna get treatment. Last time I saw him was going into the school office & im assuming he moved schools. I changed my snapchat username either way
The school and hospital officials knew about it and I haven't seen or had any contact w/him since (its been around 4yrs) so I think Im good now at least I hope so
Oh sorry, the last 6 lines of what you wrote weren't visible when I read the question. What can I say... an unstable mind does weird things. That wasn't a crush, it was probably just a fixation he had during a break. Glad to know you're ok. Sometimes people who do stuff like that want to apologize but they're advised to cease all contact at least until they're better. Let's hope he's doing fine now and he chose to just let you be.
Be upfront to be. If you don't like him don't bother to him after that what he does to himself is his decision but beware for yourself. I also had an ex who was this extreme and that kind of love is burdening yk. So just ignore it.
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this might have been more of an obsessive than weird crush?
if this is anywhere near true tell the adults right the fuck now
The school and hospital officials knew about it and I haven't seen or had any contact w/him since (its been around 4yrs) so I think Im good now at least I hope so
Oh sorry, the last 6 lines of what you wrote weren't visible when I read the question. What can I say... an unstable mind does weird things. That wasn't a crush, it was probably just a fixation he had during a break. Glad to know you're ok. Sometimes people who do stuff like that want to apologize but they're advised to cease all contact at least until they're better. Let's hope he's doing fine now and he chose to just let you be.
Be upfront to be. If you don't like him don't bother to him after that what he does to himself is his decision but beware for yourself.
I also had an ex who was this extreme and that kind of love is burdening yk. So just ignore it.