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my mom has created an obsession with my weight these last few months, i wake up and she tells me to eat and keeps calling me ugly for being thin but it won´t make me enjoy eating bc i hate it, and she makes me eat the whole fridge to prove i´m eating i just wanna breathe
First off, thank you for asking a normal question. Now back to the main issue, if your mum is the type of person you can get through to with a calm conversation then do that. If not, then you're going to have to ignore her. She's the one with a problem with your body, not you. Unless you've been diagnosed with anorexia or you have bad eating habits...... 2 reply
being thin doesn't define your beauty! everyone's body is different, and everyone's definition of healthy is different. if you have a faster metabolism, then that's fine! it shouldn't define your wellfare or your health in general. just as people shouldn't under-eat, you shouldn't over-eat. no one's body works the same. if you only eat when you're ...... reply
Step 1.
Are you underweight or need food?
Sometimes you mom is only forcing you to eat because she’s worried.
Step 2.
SHE IS LEGIT BODY SHAMING YOU FOR BEING THIN! THE AUDACITY TO CALL YOU UGLY BECAUSE YOU’RE THIN.
TELL HER TO CALM THE FUCK DOWN AND SET SOME BOUNDARIES WITH HER.
step 3.
How does she treat you?
If she treats you badly ...... 1 reply
i'm kind of more the opposite, but it's not about me- so for your scenario i would ALWAYS recommend talking it out. maybe only she wants the best for you, but shows it weirdly or actually thinks your malnourished or shit.
but in the case it's not it, you should fire back things either related to her weight and make it extremely clear that you wil...... reply
if you're healthy, just ignore her. ik it might not be easy, but im lowkey going through the same thing rn. shes literally bodyshaming you which isnt ok, youre beautiful the way you are period reply
