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ok serious question-
so ik that mangago isnt like your therapist but i need your opinion- theres no lock on my bedroom door and my stepdad said i cant have one because im not 'responsible' so uh- whats your guys' opinion on this?-
Uhhh, honestly, I kinda feel like you need to talk about it to your stepfather. The older you get, the more privacy you want, and that is totally fair, so I feel like it's pretty wrong of your stepfather to deny you that, but at the same time, I think it's necessary to understand what he means by not being ''responsible'' in this situation. Just tr...... 1 reply
First, my personal opinion is that people need privacy at a certain age and if your parents have the means to provide it but won't, for whatever reason, it's a problem.
If you want to continue to talk about this and manage to convince them; offer them a spare key to keep in a neutral area like the kitchen. It's not for your stepfather's pocket,...... reply
Ok I read your replies and seeing as consulting your mom to back you up didn't even work maybe you could just be like hey if you're not gonna let me have a lock then you guys should not have the right to a lock on your bedrooms either. Whatever reason like "Well we're adults and we need our privacy" they hit you with, just counter it back at them l...... 2 reply
He should still give you a lock. I don't understand what your dad means by "responsiblity". Ask him if he trusts you or not. If he answers like no or says something like this,"Of course I trust you, but i want you to be responsible." those answers equivalent to, lol no i no trusty you. 1 reply
Have you told someone other than your parents about this? Maybe they can help you talk it out with your parents. Especially after reading your replies that your stepdad is a perv. reply