Boys love vs Girls love fans

Why are 95% of Bl fans gross while most of the Gl fans are somewhat normal. Like wtf? Do you know how many BL fans I’ve seen fetishizing gay men. Shipping random boys you don’t know, shipping random boys you do know, wishing to be a guy etc. While on the other hand I’ve never heard any of this stuff from Gl fans. I think I finally understand why fujoshi, the name for a female BL fan, means rotten girl in Japanese. Maybe it’s because there aren’t as many GL fans as there are BL fans. Or maybe it has to do with the way that the BL genre tries to appeal to fans as opposed to the GL genre. What do you guys think?
(And before some of y’all angry hoes wanna disagree with me and say most BL fans aren’t like that literally just look at the questions being asked by BL fans and see if you can change my mind)