Its different for everyone I think. But my first time hurt. The guy I was with was more experienced than me, he was gentle, took his time stretching me out but it still hurt. I didn't get it really, until my third time. Thats when sex felt amazing. Sooo...take it slow, lots of foreplsy, take ur time and just remember it might not be the most enjoya...... reply
Make sure u both know what consent is and promise to abide by it. Experiment with urself and know what u want in bed, but to be very honest the first time is gonna be boring vanilla sex so u get comfortable with exposin ur body and stuff. USE A CONDOM. All in all, just enjoy the experience of giving pleasure to each other. Good luck reply
you know, it is going to be scary. just remember to relax and to look it up on how to do it.
if ur a gilr, just remind him that he is not the only one who should feel pleasure. use condoms and go for it reply