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i need your opinion
so my father's been touching my thighs or somewhere intimate for years. My dad has been touching me in intimate places since i was born, but i became conscious and uncomfortable of it. He does it everytime he comes back from work or when he tries to wake me up. I told my mom about it and told my father was just expressing his "love" for me as his child.
I know I shouldnt ask this here, but telling strangers your problems is actually easier than telling someone close.
I would tell someone you trust. Like maybe a teacher, a friend or a boss from work. And maybe the police if it’s safe too, someone who can make it stop. Just because this isn’t how parents show love. reply
For me it's clearly sexual harassement especially if you're uncomfortable with it and if it's your dad who do it.
You sould try to talk to it to other adults than your family (like school nurse, a teacher or a friend's parent) because this need to stop.
I live in France and we have many free phones line where you can speak to professional who can h...... reply
Your mom is stupid..... no dad touches the inner thigh middle thigh MAYBE the lower thigh very next to the knee just to show how much he loves his child... that’s the wrong type of love...
What part did he touch exactly? Depends on the part of thigh I’m sitting here all disgusted hoping it ain’t he inner or part that’s next to the stomach ...... reply
tell your father no. if he persisted and still touch you i advice you to tell a teacher or an adult that could help you... at home you should avoid the hell out of your dad, lock yourself in your room, limit contact, be in his present only when necessary ie family dinner/gathering. it will be difficult and you would be seem rude but i prefer to be ...... 1 reply
bro i have a uncle that make comments about my body ever since i was a child It really fucken ruind me and I'm super self consious about my body too. So i really get you, It's so much easier to tell a stranger than people i know. I tried telling my parents that I dont like my uncle making comments about my ass,thighs and asking for my bra size but ...... reply
My dear, I’m sorry that your mom didn’t believe you but I believe you and please know that it’s ok to ask for help as early as now. I’m going to list down a few places where you can ask for help. You are not alone.
If you want to talk to someone anonymously, call the National Child Abuse Hotline at (1-800) 422-4453, any time 24/7.
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Call a friend or anyone who you trust and inform them about your situation. Also please raise your voice and say that you do not like being touched in intimate places. If he still keeps up with that sick attitude, call the police cuz what he is doing to his child is definitely not normal. If he genuinely has no perverted intentions, tell him to ch...... reply
I believe you, OP. I went through something similar.
He's an adult, he ought to know boundaries around his own kids. You shouldn't have to tell him "I'm uncomfortable" for him to understand you are. And if it's ongoing, that's his willful choice. HE WILL NOT STOP UNLESS YOU GET ADULTS INVOLVED. I need you to be brave and do what others suggested,...... reply
