yeah. i could just go with straight, and it's what i've been going with my whole life because i've never felt the need to change it, but ever since going on this site and learning about more lgbtq+, i really don't know.
i haven't really been wholeheartedly attracted to someone before, like i might have some little crushes and be like "oh he's cute, i like him" but never do anything about it. i also have a problem where i can't get invested in something or someone really easily, and as much as dating someone sounds awesome, i feel like i'll probably get bored.
i'll find girls hot and sometimes cute, same with boys. i've also never really met a person part of the lgbtq+ community, and the only trans person i've ever met was old enough to be my aunt, so i'm now even more fucking confused about my sexuality.
I was confused for a long time too, I bounced between labels for too long and honestly I just introduce myself as a lesbian now because I don’t need others to validate my sexuality, is it complex? Sure, but I do know what I like. Just be patient and experience life as it comes, and remember that labels are generally just tools used to unnecessarily categorize you into what makes others most comfortable. People change too often and the world has too many factors for me to be definitive about labels, especially in sexuality, so play it by feel.
yeah, younger I started to question my sexuality because of yuri. With time I learned how to make the difference between real attraction and the :"She/he not bad looking" feeling
i'm not sure, i've never actually dated someone and so i've never had the urge to have sex? but i'm okay with reading about sex (whether it be straight, lesbian, gay, etc)?
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I was confused for a long time too, I bounced between labels for too long and honestly I just introduce myself as a lesbian now because I don’t need others to validate my sexuality, is it complex? Sure, but I do know what I like. Just be patient and experience life as it comes, and remember that labels are generally just tools used to unnecessarily categorize you into what makes others most comfortable. People change too often and the world has too many factors for me to be definitive about labels, especially in sexuality, so play it by feel.
yeah, younger I started to question my sexuality because of yuri. With time I learned how to make the difference between real attraction and the :"She/he not bad looking" feeling
haha wish i could determine the difference as well
I don't know how to describe it. Maybe ask yourself if you admire/ want to be like that person or be with them
the problem is i have no clue what the boundaries of friendship and love are
Maybe your aromantic and asexual?
i'm not sure, i've never actually dated someone and so i've never had the urge to have sex? but i'm okay with reading about sex (whether it be straight, lesbian, gay, etc)?