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Are my friends toxic ??
Hello , so I'm a high schooler (16 y.o) , I used to hang out with my two friends since middleschool but the year we passed to HS , the changed somehow . They would tell me jokes that hurt me like : why you dress like this ? -You look ugly - Mmmh , You're not pretty - You should try something else - Your outfit is just laame And there is that day , I felt like they insulted my MOTHER . I am the youngest among my siblings so my mother is her 50's . while those two girls are the oldest , their mothers are in the 30's . So , when we met one of their mothers , I said : wow , your mother looks young ! the other one replied :WeLl oUr moThErS aRe YouNg (〜￣△￣)〜 Btw , they met my mother before , and then I felt rrly rrly annoyed , like she said it in a manner , like she wante to hurt me saying that. I don't talk with them anymore , I want to finish this "friendship" but I don't want to be lonely and the same time I wanna live my high school days with good memories (≧∀≦) Please tell me what should I do ? and thank you so much for reading (●'◡'●)ﾉ
I used to have friends like that.
If they're being mean to you and continuously making jokes like that, I think it'd be best to leave at some point- before they tear away at your confidence.
Just maybe spend less time around them, you don't even have to really drop them.
If you can, please tell them that you don't like these kinds of jokes, even ...... reply
Thank you so much guys for the replies :''') You made my day . Our back to school day is close , so there I'll meet them . I decided to leave them and move on , and I won't talk about it unless they say one of those pitiful jokes .
I won't bother find new friends , if they come I'll welcome them , if not I am good by myself . Life is not about pe...... 1 reply
I think you're doing great by leaving them, by what you are telling here they are toxic. I get that you don't want to be alone, but you said, you what to have a good highscool life, and if you don't feel great with this friendship you should end it. And if you stay in this toxic friendship you may not find new friends, but if you're free from this ...... 1 reply
I also have a friend who constitly just tells me she hates me and makes fun of me when we’re around other friends like she almost makes fun of me to be “cool” and then when it’s just me and her she is like I’m being rude and that’s it. So I understand what it feels like and it doesn’t feel good so honestly I think you should try to ma...... reply
That's toxic friends 101,like bitchh that ain't cute. I suggest u to just stop, people like that just bring more harm than good to your mental health.
You can just be building small trauma by what they say n end up being more unable to make new friends the longer u wait. No company is better than bad company.
Just focus on self care n improving y...... 1 reply
