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Should I be concerned?
So I got into a relationship not that long ago. I’d say it’s doing pretty good but there are tons of things that leave me confused. See my partner is asexual or aromantic I forgot which one. There’s nothing wrong with that I just have noticed that there are some things that I’m not possibly used to. My partner and I don’t call that often like how other couples do it’s kind of rare we call. They’re not the type to text either since texting isn’t there thing I guess. Most times they work and there is a time difference for us so I understand that things might not always work out for a call and texting can be hard if they’re working. I just feel slightly disappointed and hurt at the fact that their isn’t much communication. I don’t want to overwhelm my partner and understand that maybe they just need more space compared to others. They told me I can communicate about anything but I feel that it’s hard too. I don’t want to seem like I’m asking for a lot and I also want them to live their life as they please. It’s just kinda sad to me because even though we’re in a relationship I feel as though it’s no different as being friends. I feel as though that maybe I’m only seen as more as a crush still and not like an actual partner in the relationship. I think maybe I’m overthinking and just need to take it back a step but I honestly don’t know anymore. If anyone could give me feed back I’d appreciate it but if not this is just a little vent.
Take you're partner, make some tea and sit down. Then talk. It's ok to fell this way and you don't have to worry about anything when you talk to them. Instead of being affected by this, maybe try to find a solution for this. Everything will be ok if you comunicate, this is literally the number 1 rule. I hope I helped you a little and I also hope my...... reply