I’m a Fujoshi who def reads for the smut I’m not gonna lie but then there are also times where it actually is for the plot or just fluff (๑•̀ㅂ•́)و✧ I don’t think there’s a problem. To each their own right. Some people watch porn and others read hentai and some people don’t do any of that. Whatever floats that person boat and...... reply
Kinda hard to say. I could be either or it just depends on the person. Like I want a hot mature man or woman to dominate me. But if it’s a cute guy or girl I’d want to dominate them. reply
I think it might be fetishized to a certain degree but the common thing is that these yaoi/ bl comics are designed for fantasized mlm relationships. There’s a difference between fantasy and reality. People should be able to differentiate the two. I feel like some comics spread awareness as to what happens to how gay people are treated and others ...... reply
So I got into a relationship not that long ago. I’d say it’s doing pretty good but there are tons of things that leave me confused. See my partner is asexual or aromantic I forgot which one. There’s nothing wrong with that I just have noticed that there are some things that I’m not possibly used to. My partner and I don’t call that often like how other couples do it’s kind of rare we call. They’re not the type to text either since texting isn’t there thing I guess. Most times they work and there is a time difference for us so I understand that things might not always work out for a call and texting can be hard if they’re working. I just feel slightly disappointed and hurt at the fact that their isn’t much communication. I don’t want to overwhelm my partner and understand that maybe they just need more space compared to others. They told me I can communicate about anything but I feel that it’s hard too. I don’t want to seem like I’m asking for a lot and I also want them to live their life as they please. It’s just kinda sad to me because even though we’re in a relationship I feel as though it’s no different as being friends. I feel as though that maybe I’m only seen as more as a crush still and not like an actual partner in the relationship. I think maybe I’m overthinking and just need to take it back a step but I honestly don’t know anymore. If anyone could give me feed back I’d appreciate it but if not this is just a little vent.
I’ve genuinely been wondering this. I don’t think there’s genuinely been a moment ever where I’ve loved myself. I despise who I am and don’t like looking at any bit of me or even seeing it whether it be a picture or my very own reflection.
